"Legitimate criticism" is a pretty hefty phrase to throw around. Just because you didn't enjoy certain parts of the game doesn't necessarily mean I didn't. Now I get what you're saying and I don't have a problem with other people having opinions. What I have a problem with is a ) people being really rude about the way they express their opinion (for example hoping the company goes down in flames strikes me as completely unnecessary hate) and b ) treating their opinion as if it somehow objective and the only one worth listening to. Of course I'm not saying this is you but there are people out there and on the BSN who do this.
I get what you mean, saying the company should be disbanded is a little bit extreme, but for example demanding the people in charge to step down when you feel the company needs to change its direction is not really an unnecessary hate. And about the objectivity, there are really some cases when we can objectively point out flaws or issues, whether one likes the game or not. Then problems arise when many people start to completely ignore these issues and instead going on and on about how the game was awesome. They can like the game all they want, that is fine by me, but deflecting arguments or arguing by using fallacies is not ok.
When you say "ignorant," what are people being ignorant about, exactly? I've never seen anyone argue that someone actually liked something even though he's saying he didn't like it.
And I'm still not clear where empathy comes in. Whether I care about someone's problem doesn't change the substance of the argument.
It is pointless to point out to you when people have been ignorant and how, when you are one of them and the rest of them are people you often agree with or are your friends. You won't agree with me on it and I won't waste my time. It would be exactly the same as trying to show you how and when BW has lied. Ofc you are not clear on where empathy comes in, since the majority of your posts I have read are completely indifferent. Not saying you are an indifferent person, because I don't know you, I am only talking about the way you post / argue.
If you didn't like the game or you have problems with it then I am completely fine with it. You are more than welcome to voice your grievances and various complaints.
The only time I take exception to such a stance is when someone that is criticizing the game speaks in such a way that it seems like their viewpoint is EVERYONE'S viewpoint. As if since THEY didn't like the game it means that NO ONE could have liked the game and if they did then there is just something wrong with them or they have low standards etc etc
That is the tricky thing about forums.
You get the people who like/love the game (Like me) and you get the people who didn't enjoy, hate, or have issues with the game and you put them in the same room as one and other. Most are content to live and let live, but when you get the "My opinion is the only opinion that is needed" people that is when things go downhill quickly.
More people just need to learn when its time to step away and say.... Lets just agree to disagree.
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The problem sometime is, that some issues should be everyone's issues. Just because I play on PC should I ignore the fact that BW lied to old gen players and then basically told them to shove it when many of them can't even play the game they bought? No and neither should anybody else, because them fixing their mess and taking responsibility is in everyone's interest. A little bit of empathy, not indifference.
(If you already submitted your post, then the way I do it is: click on quote, which starts a new post, I'll then select it all, cut it (ctrl+x), click on edit the post I want to add another quote to and paste the cut text there. There are probably better ways to do it, but I don't know of them. If you just want to add more quotes to a post you are currently writing, simply clicking on quote adds them there.)
I'm so sorry for that I hadn't taken my happy pills yet my mind doesn't work right until I have "sigh" my bad.
P.s I myself pr-ordered Skyrims first day release and only now am I hearing of any game breaking bugs was this a lucky fluke on my end or something? I am genuinely curious any information you could give would be appreciated thank you.
It's ok, no harm done 
Probably luck I would say. I can't really offer any isight or useful information on the matter of bugs, because even if you have the exactly same product installed on the exactly same computers hw-spec wise, you can get very different results. PC magic I guess
For example I was kinda unlucky in DAO:A, 2 main quests (among other things) were unfinishable by normal means, one had to be resolved by dev console and I had to glitch the other one. Yet there are people that haven't encountered them at all.
To pre-order a game before release, you must use previews. In DAI cas, two days before release, they still flowed us with marketing BS that wasn't in the game. More and more companies made reviews embargo pre-launch. We don't have any independant source to tell us what the game really look like.
Don't even bother, it is completely pointless to argue with Elhanan. According to him the game came out just as promised and advertised, without any major issues and everything is just so awesome, 10/10, GOTY
Even if you serve him facts on a silver platter, he will ignore them completely, deflect them and talk about something else, that was according to him amazing.