DAO: Leliana. I find no common ground with her views. As berelinde said: too syrupy. And you do not see me enjoying talking about shoes or hair in real life, I cannot roleplay and feign interest to those matters in game either (personal fault- not hers). In fairness I often end up cleaning my desk if I just listen to her as friend. I am not into cute ladies who like fluffy things.
DA2: Anders. His personality is infuriating to me that I cannot even flirt with him.
DA:I: Competition between two for a different reasons: Blackwall, because he was way too ..gentlemanish to my tastes and I was bored to my t its. I need insults and fire. His personal revelation was alright, quite pleasing, but it did not make the romance less dull. I enjoy him as mate though- he is more..lively with his past exploits and such. Being left in a barn doesn't bother me at the slightest- it is just Inquisition version of disappearing before breakfast
In fairness I did not even remember the whole detail before this forum reminded me of it, and still.. doesn't bother me. But I suppose it tells about me more than anything. Not my cup of tea.
And then there is Bull. It goes down to the Anders kind of .. dislike. I find nothing attractive in him, not mentally or physically. I just cannot make myself go there, because even normal conversations make me wander around the room hoping the chat would be over already. I don't do trying for the sake of possibility of being surprised positively- usually it ends up with fart sounds and cake on the face. I am eternal pessimist.. and I've used youtube.
I role-play in all other areas of gameplay, but I really suck balls in romance role-playing. If romance falls flat I will end up hating the whole playthrough- particularly when I know there are better options. That happened to me with my lady qunari- run. I completed it, but if there is a way of killing off the Inquisitor that lady will take it (as an only one). The woman even drained the whole bloody well empty ..