I like how mine turned out, I stuck with it through ME1-ME3. I had some problems with the face correctly translating from ME2 to ME3, but I fixed it with Lazarus Project. The only thing that stood out a bit (different than in ME2) is that the jaw is a bit narrower, but I think that's the general problem in ME3, all female faces look younger because of that.
Here are some screenshots:
I used this texture overhaul and hair mod to get the default Jane hair on my custom made Shepard. Here's my headmorph. I've used to use classy hair in ME1 and ME2, but it looked off in ME3. She also used to be blonde, but I hated the glossy look of hair they've implemented, so I turned her black.
ME2 screenshot: