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I'll be honest. I don't think I'm a good person.

 

I'm not saying this out of self pity. I'm saying this because there is literal documented evidence of this.

 

 

I look back at old Youtube comments I've made, Facebook posts and find myself deleting them.

I think of things I've said and done to people and feel utter shame.

Even things that I've done whilst believing they were for the greater good turned out for the worst.

 

I have been selfish, narrow minded and entitled.

I have shown a lack of sympathy and empathy.

 

I don't want to be a bad person. I genuinely feel bad for the hurt I have caused other people.

I want to help others. I really feel bad when people are in pain, but too often that pain is caused by me.

 

I don't intend to be a bad person, but my goodness do I have a malicious streak.

So. How do I fix this? Does anyone here know how to be a good person?


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Abraham_uk

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Do you ever wonder if you're a good person?

Or is this only something that bad people think?

 

Maybe good people don't have to worry about whether or not they're good people.

They have a few regrets but realise that the good they've done out weighs the bad.

 

So perhaps the simple fact I feel this way is indicative of the fact I'm a bad person.



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okay, how much have you had to drink?


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Don't be an arsehole.


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Just close your eyes and concentrate on ET's words of wisdom..

 

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Am I a good person? Probably not.



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okay, how much have you had to drink?

 

None. I've been deleting comments from youtube because I'm going to get a new job.

 

Hang on. Are you saying that you never wonder about this stuff?



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Am I a good person? Probably not.

 

I'm so glad I'm not the only self aware person.

Maybe everyone is self aware. It's not like I can read minds.



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Am I a good person? Probably not.

Never had a problem with you yo.

 

I think you are good


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What helps for me is to wait before replying. Think about why someone posted what they did. Try to see them as a human being rather than an ignorant jerk who will benefit no end by being flamed.

As for being a good person, I've not seen any evidence to the contrary. You have exhibited compassion in the past and that's the primary component of being good right there.

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None. I've been deleting comments from youtube because I'm going to get a new job.

 

Hang on. Are you saying that you never wonder about this stuff?

and they care about your youtube comments? what kind of nazi asshat dictators do you work for?

 

 

 

and no i've never wondered, i know im not a good person and i dont really give a ****



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What helps for me is to wait before replying. Think about why someone posted what they did. Try to see them as a human being rather than an ignorant jerk who will benefit no end by being flamed.

As for being a good person, I've not seen any evidence to the contrary. You have exhibited compassion in the past and that's the primary component of being good right there.

*hugs*

 

Thanks.

It's easy when there are guys like you around. :wizard:

 

You know. Here is a video that got me asking a lot of questions about myself.

I was like. Damn. That sounds a lot like me. Obviously I'm not as bad as that but damn. He really hit the nail on the head.

 


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internet insults? Really? Most people in the world are jackasses who deserve whatever insults they get anyway.

 

Here's my suggestion, don't bother. Being a good person is mostly about maintaining an illusion, nothing more. It's pointless on the internet. Of course I've got to question why the hell you'd use your real name on Youtube or elsewhere.



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I seriously doubt you're that bad of a person.

 

As far as I'm concerned Youtube comments and facebook post are nothing compared to some of the **** people can do to others. Try joining Isis and start remorselessly murdering people, then you can claim to be a bad person. 


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A lot of employers screen social media comments by employees and more importantly by prospective employees.

There was a news story that went viral about a young woman who whined about her new job and was fired for it.

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internet insults? Really? Most people in the world are jackasses who deserve whatever insults they get anyway.

 

Here's my suggestion, don't bother. Being a good person is mostly about maintaining an illusion, nothing more. It's pointless on the internet. Of course I've got to question why the hell you'd use your real name on Youtube or elsewhere.

 

I just imagined Jerome Flynn as Bronn saying that.

Sounds like something he would say in real life.



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A lot of employers screen social media comments by employees and more importantly by prospective employees.

There was a news story that went viral about a young woman who whined about her new job and was fired for it.

and here is why social media has to be eradicated :P .....and why going postal on your boss should be legal...



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I seriously doubt you're that bad of a person.

 

As far as I'm concerned Youtube comments and facebook post are nothing. Try joining Isis and start remorselessly murdering people, then you can claim to be a bad person. 

 

In my faith the standards for being a good person are really high.



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Why be good when you can be bad?

 

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Okay, I apologize for those last two. Well, Alfred's clearly joking about murder, so maybe not that one, but that line from Embeth Davidtz in Army of Darkness is basically the only cringe-worthy moment in an otherwise great film. Unfortunately, it's also the only movie scene I know of that was a propos to what I was trying to say, so I used it, anyway. Because I'm bad.


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I like being "bad" (as in cool) but not bad as in a horrible person.

I'm not "bad" in the cool way either. But "bad" people are awesome!

 

 

 

One thing I do believe is, no one earns the right to be treated with respect.

Treating others with respect is mandatory. Sadly I and most people I know are repeat offenders.

 

That said, some people are just not worthy of respect. Sadly they must be respected too.

They're people after all.


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On the character creation screen, select one of the top three alignments.

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*Sigh* Don't get me started on this.



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Cocaine also helps btw



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ok by studdying Tumblr i think i get it.

1 Be part of a Collective.

indeviduality is evil.

2 Be female. unless you are hetrosexual then become either Trans or Homosexual.

3 Develope an Otherkin.

like catkind. im a 50 ft tall transforming robot.

4 Be anti Culture appropriation.

are you sick of Culture and new things ? yean no one should like other cultures.

5 Be Reverse Racist. 

fekin Whitepeople.

6 be Missandrist.

LoL its not real.

7 be transethnic.

yep you have to hate yourself.

8  be Missoganistic.

yep you have to think Women are incompatant and weak.

 

 

allternitively just say f*ck it and not be an arsehole. just sayin.


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