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[The Jackal]

 

Watch the above video with extreme care. This got me thinking about Bullying in general. Most likely often people are bullied each day in High Schools across the nation. Some kids even brought guns to school as a way of resolving said bully problem. This has taken place more then once.

 

You can also be an adult be bullied at work or at any social setting. It got me thinking and interested. Have you ever been bullied in your life. What have you done to resolve said bully problem. One size solution may not fit all. I'm sincerely curious to hear the different situations people are bullied in and what reaction they took.

 

Have you ever been bullied. Please be as honest and detailed as possible. Thank you.  

[o Ventus]

I think everybody has been bullied at least once or twice. I have some extremely bad memories of middle school and high school.

 

@ that video: I don't watch the X Factor or similar shows... Are the judges always such unrepentant a**holes?

[The Jackal]

I think everybody has been bullied at least once or twice. I have some extremely bad memories of middle school and high school.

 

@ that video: I don't watch the X Factor or similar shows... Are the judges always such unrepentant a**holes?

 

No this was very very rare case. http://www.theguardi...g-of-contestant

 

Actually those two been booted off the show. After that took place. A petition on change dot org got about 70k signatures. They were kicked off. I never heard of either one of them honestly. I decided though it was a good video to set the tone of Bullying. You'll be happy to know they were fired right away after that. How brutal though. 

[o Ventus]

No this was very very rare case. http://www.theguardi...g-of-contestant

 

Actually those two been booted off the show. After that took place. A petition on change dot org got about 70k signatures. They were kicked off. I never heard of either one of them honestly. I decided though it was a good video to set the tone of Bullying. You'll be happy to know they were fired right away after that. How brutal though. 

From that article, Natalia Kills sounds like an overgrown 16 year old girl who's never been told no. I'm glad they're gone.

[Gravisanimi]

I was by one guy until I snapped near the end of my freshman year of highschool and broke a twice-as-wide-as-I-am man's jaw so hard he had is wired shut for a while.

 

I took care of my anger problem, and no one ever bothered me again, even if I were to get bullied now, I'd just laugh in their face.

[XxPrincess(x)ThreatxX]

Ive been bullied before, i have 2 worst experiences, 1 was when i was around 8 or 9 year old & a boy attacked me from behind then scraped my face against the curb while i was down (his father was with him btw & made no attempt to stop it ) the 2nd experience was as a 14 or 15 year old when me & a friend got jumped by a gang of girls we'd had problems with, i really hate when people don't have the guts to fight 1 on 1

[SlottsMachine]

Not really. Nothing serious that is. The worse instances went away pretty quick when it was clear I didn't give a ****. 

[Morty Smith]

Humor worked for me, but it makes you sarcastic and no one wants to be sarcastic on the internet. So I had to become serious and now I fight criminals in the streets.

[Fidite Nemini]

A wierd deviation from bullying.

 

There was this young kid when I was in my last year at school who was like five or so years my junior who somehow got it into his head that he could pick on me. No idea what the trigger was, but when shifting classrooms this little brat just walked up to me and insulted me. I told him to stuff it. He continued and even tried to shove me, so I grabbed him by his collar, dragged him to the wall and was about to give him a mouthful (not the physical mouthful mind you), but then a teacher came stomping around and started yelling at me for abusing this poor kid. Told her she's got it wrong and he was starting a fight, which I was about to end when she came along. Teacher called bullshit and would have seen my disciplined if my own class teacher hadn't told her in no uncertain terms that I wasn't the kind of person to go abusing people.

 

Ever since then, the kid thought it was funny to do things like scream insults at me or even throw empty cans my way. Always from a save distance and with friends of course. As soon as I turned his way he ran straight for the aforementioned teacher and lied the blue out of the heavens that I was threatening him. And the teacher, obviously having a mindset of "cute kids can't be evil little anklegnawers, always believed him and threatened me with disciplinary actions, even when I had friends around attesting to that little gnats aggressions, she just flat-out wouldn't believe us over that little ****.

 

Then I graduated, end of story.

 

 

Never really felt bullied as much as it was simply annoying as hell and a couple times I really had the mind to punt that brat through a wall, consequences be damned, but I had friends (or rather that one friend) who kept telling me it's not worth it.

 

 

There were other instances of people trying to bully me, but being indifferent to their taunts usually made them uninterested very swiftly. But that kid ...

[SlottsMachine]

From that article, Natalia Kills sounds like an overgrown 16 year old girl who's never been told no. I'm glad they're gone.

 

The funny thing is she herself looks like a call girl dressed to look like Cleopatra. 

[Leo]

My heart sank watching that video, specifically when at the moment when the judges got to him.

 

Me, bullied? 

 

I've only ever been teased and picked on, which was easy to ignore. Although my mom has mentioned that I body slammed a classmate that had been picking on me, way back in Kindergarten or Daycare which I find funny and don't remember at all.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Oh yeah i was a Mute Hetrochomatic tomboy geek so offcorse i was bullied.. after there bones knitted i wasnt. till secondery (High school.) then apparently i bullied my bully by defending myself.

[Dio Demon]

I was picked on. Told I was retarded, fugly, stupid, beaten with rulers on the bus and just generally harassed and the one time  I did fight back I got into trouble.

 

Schools promote a victim mentality since they don't have the power to actually stop the bullies from doing anything.

[Dio Demon]

Oh yeah i was a Mute Hetrochomatic tomboy geek so offcorse i was bullied.. after there bones knitted i wasnt. till secondery (High school.) then apparently i bullied my bully by defending myself.

Horrible person Su Lu Pi.

 

This person obviously didn't do anything to you...

 

Seriously how hard did you deck 'im?

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

I was always taught to hit back and if you have to fight WIN. if a git hits you Drop the mother if thay threaten you. drop em harder then beet the snot out of there gang.

i did ECW type wrestling as a teen those idiots couldnt hurt me any worse than i did my self.

WIMPS.

[Bison]

Hm I wouldn't say bullied. But this tall nerd got quite angry at me and after threatening to chokeslam (yes, you read that right) and punch me twice 'so hard I won't see tomorrow' I pushed him a bit further cause he was being a dick to my friend. Thing is this guy had knee bracers for what I presume is a good reason, so when he moved to actually punch me I kicked him in his knee and headbut him when he got down to my height. 

[Fidite Nemini]

I was always taught to hit back and if you have to fight WIN. if a git hits you Drop the mother if thay threaten you. drop em harder then beet the snot out of there gang.

i did ECW type wrestling as a teen those idiots couldnt hurt me any worse than i did my self.

WIMPS.

 

Commendable philosophy.

 

I found that not giving a flying sh*t is likewise very effective against everyone but the most foolhardy idiots who can't take a hint. Most bullies are attention seekers rather than people out for blood, so not giving them attention dissuades them quickly. Note that I said most, not all. Some don't get the hint and others again simply are out for blood, which means ignoring them does nothing at best and gets you hurt at worst.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

true but i only did it in self defence after thay got violent.

hay i was a blond Bean pole in highschool. everyone picked a fight whith the nerdy weird kid who wasnt smart.

so u ignored the names and taunts.

but if they threw a punch....

[RZIBARA]

I used to get bullied a lot in junior high, since apart from me and a single black girl, everyone in my school was white. Basically called a terrorist and f*aggot for 3 years straight. Barely had any friends back then. I guess I just learned to deal with it. It usually works out in the end (not always the case though).

 

Strange thing is, high school wasnt the same at all, even though it was all the same people. Life has been good since then.

 

EDIT: Also, as for the b*tch in the video, I hope she goes and dies in a hole with her husband. That sh*t is plain rude. I feel for the guy. Props to him

[Fidite Nemini]

true but i only did it in self defence after thay got violent.

hay i was a blond Bean pole in highschool. everyone picked a fight whith the nerdy weird kid who wasnt smart.

so u ignored the names and taunts.

but if they threw a punch....

 

Then you break an arm and a nose. Broken arm means they won't punch you again, broken nose means now THEY're the kid with the ugly crooked thing in their face.

[Dio Demon]

Commendable philosophy.

 

I found that not giving a flying sh*t is likewise very effective against everyone but the most foolhardy idiots who can't take a hint. Most bullies are attention seekers rather than people out for blood, so not giving them attention dissuades them quickly. Note that I said most, not all. Some don't get the hint and others again simply are out for blood, which means ignoring them does nothing at best and gets you hurt at worst.

I think modern education systems (or Australian at least) tends to side with the bully in most cases. Since the victim gets punished as well as the bully (the bully usually doesn't care. The victim does.) The victim becomes less likely to fight back and the bully keeps on going.

[Fidite Nemini]

I think modern education systems (or Australian at least) tends to side with the bully in most cases. Since the victim gets punished as well as the bully (the bully usually doesn't care. The victim does.) The victim becomes less likely to fight back and the bully keeps on going.

 

Well, in that case, get yourself a Sidney Funnelweb spider as pet and show him pictures. If he continues with bullying, there's no guarantee that he won't someday wake up with a giant GET-THAT-THING-OFF-MY-FACE-YAAAARRRGGGH ...

 

At the least, it should show him that you deal with deadlier stuff than him on a daily basis, maybe he catches the hint. If he doesn't ... well, face-hug,

[Bison]

I think modern education systems (or Australian at least) tends to side with the bully in most cases. Since the victim gets punished as well as the bully (the bully usually doesn't care. The victim does.) The victim becomes less likely to fight back and the bully keeps on going.

Yeah I agree, in all my situations they've sided with the bully, not the defending person or the victim. It's annoying me cause my friend wont do anything when they push him around.