Who's saying they're good guys?
People who seem to think that they care about someone's feelings in their role are implying they're good guys--look I'm not going to write a thesis here or do that thing where I debate this like I'm debating gun control or single payer health care so don't expect every single word I say to be the most precise choice or every phrase to be fully formed.
I'm using figurative language because it's a game forum, but...
It is bad to discriminate, yes?
Yes. We agree.
We're supposed to be angry with the Qun because they discriminate, remove choice, and block people into categories. Their presence in Kirkwall was a morality tale, we were not supposed to want to be told how to live our lives by an arbitrary authority like the Qun.
We were supposed to want to fight back against a traditional, oppressive, patriarchal society like the Qun.