Girls sometimes get more attention, and I'm sorry but they also seem to ask for it most if the time. Now why would you post sexy pics of yourself for everyone to look at? Of course you're gonna get all sorts of messages and attention. Again, I'm sorry if I'm offending anyone, but if you portray yourself based on sex, that's what people are gonna want from you. No one is gonna look at the pic of a girl with her boobs out and think "I want to marry that girl, I'm gonna introduce her to mum".
Not saying freaks and weirdos that bother people for no reason don't exist, cos of course they do - just like in the real world, I'm just saying, try not to invite it in maybe.
Any BSN couples?
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:15
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Wait OWA and E-Ro are an actual couple? O.o I thought that was a running gag...
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:16
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I noticed females online get a ton more attention then guys in certain aspects. For example. My one guy friend has a FB set up. He has maybe 200 friends. My female friend has some "cute sexy pictures posing for the camera" she has over a thousand. She tells me she gets daily messages from guys wanting to meet her and do stuff with her.
My point is it seems like girls get a ton more attention online. Alot of it is unwanted. There are normal guys out there like on the BSN network. There are also guys who act like they never seen a girl before. When you said the guy sends you messages saying. I want to be with you have sex and a relationship. I wonder does that ever really work on females. It seems more creepy then seductive.
Well, there's a range of psychological factors at play with that kind of behavior. I'm saying this as a professional educator who has worked with kids (elementary to middle school) diagnosed as behaviorally disturbed. When they're young, you can see those obsessive tendencies starting early. They do it to their friends, though (usually) on a nonsexual level - to such a point that eventually the poor kid just doesn't have any friends anymore. (As they get older, yeah, it can become sexual. And with some, the sexual issues start a lot earlier than what would seem age-appropriate.)
And you see a variety of causes for this kind of behavior, whether it's environmental (abusive parents, abuse from a source external of the family, or no family or parents/moving from foster home to foster home) or whether it's simply hereditary. Regardless, these behaviors are permanently set for most of those kids. Those foundations are so hard wired when **** like that starts early. And believe it or not, I've seen plenty of female students who are every bit as creepy, intrusive, and obsessive due to all the nasty obstacles life threw at them before they were even potty trained.
How does this translate to the internet? Unsure. I suppose the internet is a quasi "safe" place to go to as an outlet for such hard wired tendencies, thus the influx of creepsters, namely male-on-female. My guess as to why there are more complaints from female internet users regarding the harassing behavior of male internet users has to do with a variety of factors. For one, females are conditioned not to be as "pursuing" as males. So the chances of a creepy female working up the nerve to sexually stalk another person are low. They aren't impossible - just low. For two, are most males comfortable with telling people that someone is sexually harassing them? Perhaps not. Regardless of the harasser's gender, my educated guess is that boys feel apprehensive to so casually admit that, "This guy/girl is sexually harassing me online..." thus perhaps the instances are under-reported.
But who knows? You could write an entire dissertation on this topic!
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:18
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:22
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Girls sometimes get more attention, and I'm sorry but they also seem to ask for it most if the time. Now why would you post sexy pics of yourself for everyone to look at? Of course you're gonna get all sorts of messages and attention. Again, I'm sorry if I'm offending anyone, but if you portray yourself based on sex, that's what people are gonna want from you. No one is gonna look at the pic of a girl with her boobs out and think "I want to marry that girl, I'm gonna introduce her to mum".
Not saying freaks and weirdos that bother people for no reason don't exist, cos of course they do - just like in the real world, I'm just saying, try not to invite it in maybe.
True, but sexy can be so subjective. Meaning, it's tough to define "sexy." That's the problem. "Sexy" is so different to different people.
"Oh this girl's cleavage is *slightly* showing." ::hits on her::
"Oh this girl's boobs are practically hanging out." ::hits on her::
"Oh here's a photo of a girl and her friends at the pool - naturally they're all in swimsuits." ::hits on her::
"Here's a photo of this cute girl's feet. I have a foot fetish." ::hits on her::
"Here's a selfie of the girl looking upward at the camera - reminds me of a BJ" ::hits on her::
And it really can go on and on and on and on. So many grey areas. 
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:24
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Who is going to be my BSN romance option?
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:24
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Wait OWA and E-Ro are an actual couple? O.o I thought that was a running gag...
LOL you didn't know? 
Yeah we are! At first we were joking but then it became very much real and we are planning to meet in person soon 
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:26
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Being new here, hello to everyone by the way, I've been looking around the forums and reading quite a few posts, i couldn't help noticing that BSN seems to be a place where people look for/ask about love and relationships.
So I was just wondering, has anyone from here actually ended up together?
No I'm not looking for love myself, that's not why I'm asking, just curious
What? You've never met the Mirandamancers on here? 
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:29
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The romance forums were...something else, to say the least.What? You've never met the Mirandamancers on here?
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:29
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Who is going to be my BSN romance option?
Knights, me, SimxRah, Zombie T, Eternal Phoenix's mum, the end of Johnnie Walker's bottle, the bathroom or that old guy.
LOL you didn't know?
Congrats. I hope it goes well.
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:45
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LOL, maybe we shouldn't air all our dirty laundry out in here, princess.Yup we are and it's a rather funny way we met too actually lol. That fdddd something girl made that thread about me linking to my status update I'm guessing most people remember and she was bashing me and hating on me on that thread haha and E-Ro was new at that time so he just decided to take her side and laugh with her. And then me and a few others were hanging on this thread discussing the whole thing and E-Ro came in and boy.... he shouldn't have done that... cause everyone like 10 people started yelling and cursing at him, telling him to get the f out for acting like a jerk towards me haha, the poor guy fought all he could to the bitter end all alone... until he gave up and pm'ed me with an apology, I forgave him and we started being cool from that moment on and he became my slave and I became his DOMINA!!! Well.. sometimes he makes me his slave or princess but.. yeah lol
It started as a gag, then we started talking on the phone, sort of moved fast after that.Wait OWA and E-Ro are an actual couple? O.o I thought that was a running gag...
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:47
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LOL, maybe we shouldn't air all our dirty laundry out in here, princess.
It started as a gag, then we started talking on the phone, sort of moved fast after that.
If you're both international I'd recommend using Skype or G+. A lot cheaper, trust me
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:47
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I'd recommend using G+.
You really are a demon.
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:47
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I thought Bunz and Cassandra were a thing?
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:49
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OP, I tried it once with someone on here. Didn't end so well for me. I'll leave her anonymous.
That said, they were on a few years ago, but off now, but a couple of friends of mine met on the BSN, then joined a skype group that some of us had going. Eventually, they decided that they wanted a relationship. AFAIK, they're still together. Met them once; I used to live about 90 minutes away from where she was at. He lived in Nevada, and she lived near Chicago.
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:51
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If you're both international I'd recommend using Skype or G+. A lot cheaper, trust me
Yeah, the lady I had a thing for was in Aus. We used Xbox Live and Skype.
Kind of mad she led me on in the end, but she was honest with me before I booked a $3000 flight to Brisbane...
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:52
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LOL, maybe we shouldn't air all our dirty laundry out in here, princess.
Hahahahaha I'm so sorry pumpkin 
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We used Xbox Live.
You really are a demon.
And I get called a demon? I didn't even suggest Xbox Live!
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If you're both international I'd recommend using Skype or G+. A lot cheaper, trust me
We use whatsapp but thank you for recommending that
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:55
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We use whatsapp but thank you for recommending that
Whatsthat?
I am a demon...! 
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:56
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>1925+90We use whatsapp but thank you for recommending that
>Not using carrier pidgeons
stay pleb
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 01:59
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Whatsthat?
I am a demon...!
It's an app you download to your phone and you can communicate for FREEEEEE, we text each other all the time for completely free it's so great
You see, E-Ro is in US while I'm in DK so it would be expensive as hell if we were to pay for it all the time, this is the perfect option for us. And of course we also have all the other options as xbox live etc.
And damn straight you areeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee SHITTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTTT 
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 02:00
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I am a demon...!
Someone once accused me of being a demon. 
Okay, I kinda asked for it, my flippant sense of humour getting me into trouble again. I guess if I've been locked in a psychiatric ward and a schizophrenic patient is expressing her concern about the spirituality of the apples in the fruit bowl I shouldn't announce that I'm going to devour their souls. They were really tasty, though.
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Posté 21 mars 2015 - 02:00
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>1925+90
>Not using carrier pidgeons
stay pleb
>mfw he doesn't deliver mail in person
