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I feel the same way about you brah brah. We buds.

The real question is, are you her type?

Idk man, seems like she likes em young and dumb.

 

I may be in my late 20s, but if it the girl is right I can be dumb as hell.  :lol:



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E-ro and Voxr are probably my favorite posters tbh

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Come on StillEden, you cant possibly be for real with this. Is that honestly what you have taken away from this thread?

I tried my best to answer your questions and be cordial, you asked some really personal stuff. Theres no need to be sarcastic, or upset. If you've been offended I apologize, as that was not my intent.


Yes this is what I've learned. In fact, I'm planning on leaving my husband tomorrow, that way I won't have to wait for him to leave me for someone hotter. Isn't that a smart move?

I've always liked sarcasm, so couldn't help myself there.

Ok, I'll b serious now. I'm not saying no couple should have an age gap. In fact I once dated a man 20 years older than myself.
But my sisters situation is doomed for misery. The average 20 year old just isn't ready to marry someone that older, have kids and take on that much responsibility so young. Sure, some will, but let's face it, it's rare.

And on top of it, I am told that what my husband and i have, can't be good if we don't care about looks (not in those exact words, but you know what I mean). When I said I would never leave him for getting fat or bald or whatever, everyone was talking about how you HAVE to look good to keep your spouse. This is so not true. If it really is love, looks won't matter AT ALL, ever. I did state it was healthy to keep fit, but you didn't understand that everyone cant take time to do this, no matter how much they would like to. Also, a lot of other factors can affect your looks. Health issues, certain medication can cause weight gain, aging, stress, and the list goes on. If someone has to worry their partner will leave them if they don't look their best, that's a huge pressure to have on you. I definitely wouldn't want that on me.
Most days when my husband gets home, i haven't even had time to shower yet, am in my pj's, no makeup, hair is a mess and you know what? He always kisses me and says "you're so beautiful". Always. That's love. And that is why no one hotter or better looking would ever be able to get my attention. My husbands personality makes him the most sexy and handsome man i have ever seen. He has me completely.
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No. You got it wrong.

First off, you should tell her to stop deluding herself-she is just screwing around. She isn't looking for a long term relationship. The overwhelming majority of men at age 20 are not looking for long term. At all. Many of them aren't looking for long term 10 years later. She's clearly just bangin' around, living the cougar life to get back at her ex.

Next, if she is in her late 30's, it might be time to prepare to give up on the concept of having kids. :whistle: She might still be able to bear them, but she is running risks through the roof. Seriously.

Thirdly, age is a HUGE factor. I don't care what all the soppy fools say. If I wanted to have kids I wouldn't go for a woman that was 20 years older than me. It'd just be foolish. I doubt I'd go for a woman 5 years older than me. The set of issues, opportunities, and responsibilities you have changes VASTLY as you age, and as a result you can enter a relationship with very little common ground at all. I'd say if she wanted a long term relationship at her age, stick with guys at least in their 30s.

Lastly, you should give me your sister's number. She seems like my type. :devil:


I agree with you. I think what you say is very true.
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I agree with you. I think what you say is very true.

 

So you're going to give me her number and preferably introduce us so I can be her next big mistake?  ;)  :devil:



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So you're going to give me her number and preferably introduce us so I can be her next big mistake? ;) :devil:


Definitely!!

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Definitely!!

 

You'll make a fine sister-in-law *cough*cough*



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You'll make a fine sister-in-law *cough*cough*


This sounds promising. I'm looking forward to the wedding and all my future nephews and nieces.

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This sounds promising. I'm looking forward to the wedding and all my future nephews and nieces.

 

I have 4 brothers and 3 sisters, so you will gain a healthy number of in-laws. 

 

Also, I love the hell out of my nephew (well, nephews, my second nephew was just born) so don't underestimate them.



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Can I come to the wedding?



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Maybe you should mind your own business and not meddle in your sister's affairs.

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Can I come to the wedding?

 

Definitely Dobby. You are like a sister to me, in some bizarre way. I'll see to it that you and Billy get a room in the party hotel.


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I have 4 brothers and 3 sisters, so you will gain a healthy number of in-laws.

Also, I love the hell out of my nephew (well, nephews, my second nephew was just born) so don't underestimate them.


Good good, huge family is nice :). As long as they're all good looking, that is :). Uh I love being naughty.
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Good good, huge family is nice :). As long as they're all good looking, that is :). Uh I love being naughty.

 

We are all absolutely handsome  :whistle: . Our genetic material is top notch.



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Definitely Dobby. You are like a sister to me, in some bizarre way. I'll see to it that you and Billy get a room in the party hotel.

 

Yay!  :D Awesome, I'll be there for sure then. 



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We are all absolutely handsome :whistle: . Our genetic material is top notch.


I'm beginning to wonder if I shouldn't marry you myself...hmmm.....

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You know who doesn't marry people for looks?

The blind.
Nobody questions that.

/Looksdebate


Inb4: im already going to hell i know.


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I'm beginning to wonder if I shouldn't marry you myself...hmmm.....

 

I only date women that are already committed if they are loaded. Just sayin.



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And on top of it, I am told that what my husband and i have, can't be good if we don't care about looks (not in those exact words, but you know what I mean). When I said I would never leave him for getting fat or bald or whatever, everyone was talking about how you HAVE to look good to keep your spouse. This is so not true. If it really is love, looks won't matter AT ALL, ever.

Ok, hold on. I am pretty sure no one said anything like this. From what I could tell it looked like people where saying FOR THEM looks where important. Not for everyone. As is the case for you and your husband, you two don't care about looks, and that's great. But love means different things to different people. You have no right to just declare what is and isn't love. You have found what works for you, and that is wonderful, I respect that. I still don't understand why you cant respect what other people want out of their lives/relationships. Forgive me for saying, but you are not some authority on what constitutes real love, or a healthy relationship. Which has been my point since the start of this thread.

I did state it was healthy to keep fit, but you didn't understand that everyone cant take time to do this, no matter how much they would like to. Also, a lot of other factors can affect your looks. Health issues, certain medication can cause weight gain, aging, stress, and the list goes on. If someone has to worry their partner will leave them if they don't look their best, that's a huge pressure to have on you. I definitely wouldn't want that on me.
Most days when my husband gets home, i haven't even had time to shower yet, am in my pj's, no makeup, hair is a mess and you know what? He always kisses me and says "you're so beautiful". Always. That's love. And that is why no one hotter or better looking would ever be able to get my attention. My husbands personality makes him the most sexy and handsome man i have ever seen. He has me completely.

I agree, being expected to look good can be stressful, and well if its not important to either partner why bother? For you its not important, for others it is.

And wow, that sounds difficult. No time to shower or get dressed most days?  :o I am shocked your posting on the bsn in that case. If my free time was so limited this would be the last place you'd find me. 

 

Anyway, everyone is different. Your wants and needs are not everyone else's wants and needs. You know what works for you, and what you consider love. Fantastic. But other people have different priorities. Honestly, that is not a life I would ever want for myself or my partner. It sounds bad to me, but that doesnt matter one whit, because its not my life, its yours and your husbands. 



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I only date women that are already committed if they are loaded. Just sayin.


Loaded with what tho?

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Loaded with what tho?

 

Loaded with fire and passion.



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When are we gonna stop fighting and just get down to dancing in the forum moonlight singing kumbaya, making kissy emotes and posting highfive gifs!


gis pls

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And that is why no one hotter or better looking would ever be able to get my attention. My husbands personality makes him the most sexy and handsome man i have ever seen. He has me completely.

Good good, huge family is nice :). As long as they're all good looking, that is :). Uh I love being naughty.

We are all absolutely handsome  :whistle: . Our genetic material is top notch.

I'm beginning to wonder if I shouldn't marry you myself...hmmm.....

LMAO.

Looks aren't important tho guys!?!?!?!?!

When are we gonna stop fighting and just get down to dancing in the forum moonlight singing kumbaya, making kissy emotes and posting highfive gifs!


gis pls

hahaha, I'll stop now. Something tells me this is just some shenanigans anyway.

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Loaded with fire and passion.


Fire and passion for what tho?

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LMAO.

Looks aren't important tho guys!?!?!?!?!

hahaha, I'll stop now. Something tells me this is just some shenanigans anyway.


Looks are everything, and so is money! Thought everyone agreed on that.
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