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[Voxr]

Fire and passion for what tho?

Competition pigeon racing

[StillEden]

Competition pigeon racing

Ah finally someone like minded!

[A Crusty Knight Of Colour]

Actually I pose this question to the whole thread (if you want to ask) how many relationships have you had where the other person around the same age?

All the major relationships I've been in so far, I've been in the same age bracket as the person I'm with (~5 years difference at most). So I guess significantly older (or younger) women aren't my thing.
 

First off, you should tell her to stop deluding herself-she is just screwing around. She isn't looking for a long term relationship. The overwhelming majority of men at age 20 are not looking for long term. At all. Many of them aren't looking for long term 10 years later. She's clearly just bangin' around, living the cougar life to get back at her ex. 
 
Next, if she is in her late 30's, it might be time to prepare to give up on the concept of having kids.    She might still be able to bear them, but she is running risks through the roof. Seriously.
 
Thirdly, age is a HUGE factor. I don't care what all the soppy fools say. If I wanted to have kids I wouldn't go for a woman that was 20 years older than me. It'd just be foolish. I doubt I'd go for a woman 5 years older than me.  The set of issues, opportunities, and responsibilities you have changes VASTLY as you age, and as a result you can enter a relationship with very little common ground at all.  I'd say if she wanted a long term relationship at her age, stick with guys at least in their 30s.

This is pretty solid overall. A little more cynical than what I would say, but hard to argue with the gist of it (the bolded).

[Jock Cranley]

Fire and passion for what tho?

 

Does it matter for what? I think not.

 

Passion is power, the fury behind her deeds. Her deeds are irrelevant to that which drives them, her motives irrelevant to the resolve to drag them into reality. Be she an angel or a demon, passion is what makes her great. Desirable. Respectable. Deserving of your affections and dedication. 

 

Fire is erratic..fire is danger. You see it, you know it can hurt you.. and yet you admire it. Just as light splits the darkness so does a woman with fire split ranks of women without. Despite is danger, despite its risks.. it makes her shine all the more brightly in your eyes. Can one truly love a woman that does not inspire some degree of awe? 

 

The target of the fire and passion means nothing. Only the fact that they are there.

[StillEden]

Ok, hold on. I am pretty sure no one said anything like this. From what I could tell it looked like people where saying FOR THEM looks where important. Not for everyone. As is the case for you and your husband, you two don't care about looks, and that's great. But love means different things to different people. You have no right to just declare what is and isn't love. You have found what works for you, and that is wonderful, I respect that. I still don't understand why you cant respect what other people want out of their lives/relationships. Forgive me for saying, but you are not some authority on what constitutes real love, or a healthy relationship. Which has been my point since the start of this thread.
I agree, being expected to look good can be stressful, and well if its not important to either partner why bother? For you its not important, for others it is.

And wow, that sounds difficult. No time to shower or get dressed most days? I am shocked your posting on the bsn in that case. If my free time was so limited this would be the last place you'd find me.

Anyway, everyone is different. Your wants and needs are not everyone else's wants and needs. You know what works for you, and what you consider love. Fantastic. But other people have different priorities. Honestly, that is not a life I would ever want for myself or my partner. It sounds bad to me, but that doesnt matter one whit, because its not my life, its yours and your husbands.

Oh dear....

I wish you and OWA a happy good looking life. Looking forward to seeing news here on BSN about you two meeting up and getting married.

[Dobby]

[Voxr]

Oh how sweet of you! I feel all warm and fuzzy now. 

[mybudgee]

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[Jeremiah12LGeek]

[Dio Demon]

All the major relationships I've been in so far, I've been in the same age bracket as the person I'm with (~5 years difference at most). So I guess significantly older (or younger) women aren't my thing.
 

What I'm trying to get is that relationships with people around your own age is just as likely to fail.

[Voxr]

She never came to it though. I even had the superintendent safe her a spot.......

[Sully13]

I don't know what is going on in here. The last page especially.

good keep your sanity then.

[mybudgee]

...Passion is power, the fury behind her deeds. Her deeds are irrelevant to that which drives them, her motives irrelevant to the resolve to drag them into reality. Be she an angel or a demon, passion is what makes her great. Desirable. Respectable. Deserving of your affections and dedication. 

 

Fire is erratic..fire is danger. You see it, you know it can hurt you.. and yet you admire it. Just as light splits the darkness so does a woman with fire split ranks of women without. Despite is danger, despite its risks.. it makes her shine all the more brightly in your eyes. Can one truly love a woman that does not inspire some degree of awe? 

 

The target of the fire and passion means nothing. Only the fact that they are there.

[StillEden]

And wow, that sounds difficult. No time to shower or get dressed most days? I am shocked your posting on the bsn in that case. If my free time was so limited this would be the last place you'd find me.

Yet. You forgot the word yet. I said, yet by the time my husband gets home. Don't make it sound like I never shower. As soon as my husband is home and can take the kids, I can shower in peace.
As far as spending time on bsn, well, what else do you think would be a less waste of time then, doing while I supervise the kids playing in the living room? Knit? It's not like I can leave them in the room alone and go for a run with the dogs or go to my gym (because i actually have my own little gym in my house), now can i? But I'd love to hear your ideas. Seriously.

[StillEden]

The English lady aka StillEden claims to be in a VERY happy marriage while flirting with Jock on here... and also says that a woman who has kids and cleans etc has no time to look good but yet she has plenty of time to be on the bsn FLIRTING WITH JOCK hahaha! .

Damn you got me! I was SERIOUSLY flirting with that guy and trying to marry him, i was not joking around making hints to other people by saying stuff like "good looking" people...BUSTED!!! Gonna go hang myself now.

[StillEden]

So StillEden which part of England are you from? I have a guess.

Err...why, you gonna army me down?

[Dio Demon]

http://calmingmanatee.com/13

 

Y'all need some calming manatee until you can talk without taking shots... unless if they're actual alcohol filled shots. Then shoot away.