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Women with guys half their age.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:13
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:14
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and now i want a bear jacket too....im pretty sure im on a PETA hate list
And just wait until I put up a picture with a human on it... 
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:14
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It's not really her parents' business, all they should concern themselves with is whether their child is happy or not. Unless they live in India.
I respectfully disagree. It will always be the parents business. I'm in my thirties and still get my parents opinion on stuff. Especially that young children. As a parent you probably want to guide and help as much and long as possible. Can't just say it's ok if the child is happy. So 19 year old Bob likes torturing animals and it makes him happy so that's ok? No. I'm overdoing here, but hope you get my point.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:15
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thats more Turing's expertiseAnd just wait until I put up a picture with a human on it...
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:16
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Beyonce and Hove have a 12 year age difference.
Just sayin
#356
Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:18
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I can feel the Haram from here.actually her parents are traditionalist muslims and with me being me im surprised they havent tried to kill me yet
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:19
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I respectfully disagree. It will always be the parents business. I'm in my thirties and still get my parents opinion on stuff. Especially that young children. As a parent you probably want to guide and help as much and long as possible. Can't just say it's ok if the child is happy. So 19 year old Bob likes torturing animals and it makes him happy so that's ok? No. I'm overdoing here, but hope you get my point.
Yeah, that's completely overdoing it. When it comes to relationships, parents should keep their hands off unless asked to give their input. Mine know if they want to get mixed up in my relationships, I'll shut them out, but fortunately they have no problems as long as I am happy. It's my life, not theirs, everyone makes their own decisions and lives with them. I've seen many friends who've gone down a rather sad route cause their parents are overly controlling trying to dictate what kind of people their kid should be with.
It is completely wrong, we are not talking about whether they should have a problem with their kid being a mass murderer or a rapist, we are talking about what kind of person their child should be with. And that is none of their business.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:21
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Thanks.
As lame and cliche as it sounds, the hearts knows what it wants. If a younger person makes you feel good about yourself and you are honest with each other, where is the harm? I think it comes down to understanding expectations. If you are in your thirties, say, and you are starting to think about wanting kids etc, but you start dating someone in their twenties, you have to be realistic about the situation and what they will be wanting from the relationship. They may not want to settle down and have kids for about 5-10 years. By that time you are pushing 40-45 and worrying about your eggs drying up! My point here is that it would be wrong to push a younger person who's not quite ready to settle down into a family unit picking out curtains because you are at that point in your life.
With me, it was an honest conversation me and my (then) boyfriend had early on. I told him where I wanted to be and what I wanted from the relationship. I was fortunate that he was kinda in that frame of mind too. If he wasn't, then I wouldn't have pursued it any further.
To be fair, you can tell whether two people are completely mismatched. In defence of OP, she may have a decent inkling about this guy and her sister. How many times have any of us ever heard a story and said "Well that's not gonna work!"
I know I have, and sometimes I've been right.
I agree with this completely! Could almost not have said it better myself.
It's how I think as well, I'm always honest about my intentions and what I want.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:24
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Thank god I have the parents I do. All they care about is my happiness, and they would NEVER tell me who I can and cant be with. Sh!t would get old fast. I dont have to worry about that.
Man I love my folks so much. Got lucky with them, seeing how some people worry over their parents like this.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:24
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It is completely wrong, we are not talking about whether they should have a problem with their kid being a mass murderer or a rapist, we are talking about what kind of person their child should be with. And that is none of their business.
do you think the kind of people who raised a mass murderer would care about him being one?
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:25
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Yeah, that's completely overdoing it. When it comes to relationships, parents should keep their hands off unless asked to give their input. Mine know if they want to get mixed up in my relationships, I'll shut them out, but fortunately they have no problems as long as I am happy. It's my life, not theirs, everyone makes their own decisions and lives with them. I've seen many friends who've gone down a rather sad route cause their parents are overly controlling trying to dictate what kind of people their kid should be with.
It is completely wrong, we are not talking about whether they should have a problem with their kid being a mass murderer or a rapist, we are talking about what kind of person their child should be with. And that is none of their business.
Normally not, but we're talking a 15 and a 19 year old dsting. If my 19 year old child was dating a 15 year, id be seriously concerned about them having sex. At 19 it's legal, not at 15 in a lot of places. And if the 15 year old has very protective parents, this could go very sour very quickly.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:25
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do you think the kind of people who raised a mass murderer would care about him being one?
Good point
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:26
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Normally not, but we're talking a 15 and a 19 year old dsting. If my 19 year old child was dating a 15 year, id be seriously concerned about them having sex. At 19 it's legal, not at 15 in a lot of places. And if the 15 year old has very protective parents, this could go very sour very quickly.
hey hey can we keep my sex life out of this please
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:27
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This thread is actually very informative, I like seeing how many people have or have not made it with the age difference in their relationships.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:30
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Normally not, but we're talking a 15 and a 19 year old dsting. If my 19 year old child was dating a 15 year, id be seriously concerned about them having sex. At 19 it's legal, not at 15 in a lot of places. And if the 15 year old has very protective parents, this could go very sour very quickly.
I've heard stories like that before, my grandparents had similar situation and they asked for President's permission to marry at young age and have been happily married ever since. People develop at different paces, you can't go and say that "well... 0:01 our son just hit 16/18, he is ready to have sex now/make his own decisions".
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:33
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Since blunts are not working....
sup.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:35
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do you think the kind of people who raised a mass murderer would care about him being one?
You'd be wrong. Good people can have monsters as their children, some people are f*cked in the head even without "help" from their parents.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:36
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Since blunts are not working....
sup.
Hahahahahahaha. I never tried this before. Whats it like?
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:39
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(A long time ago) When I was dating a guy who was a couple of years older than me, he was 17 and I was 15, we were really serious about one another and his parents (who had not really had much involvement in his upbringing) had an issue with us sleeping over at each others houses. His father called up my mum and really gave her grief about her letting us. She said "Well, if you'd rather they go about doing it at bus stops or on park benches because they aren't allowed in the house, that's up to you, but I know I would rather they do it somewhere safe and appropriate".
I have great parents, fortunately.
I have great parents, fortunately.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:42
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(A long time ago) When I was dating a guy who was a couple of years older than me, he was 17 and I was 15, we were really serious about one another and his parents (who had not really had much involvement in his upbringing) had an issue with us sleeping over at each others houses. His father called up my mum and really gave her grief about her letting us. She said "Well, if you'd rather they go about doing it at bus stops or on park benches because they aren't allowed in the house, that's up to you, but I know I would rather they do it somewhere safe and appropriate".
I have great parents, fortunately.
your mom's awesome
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:42
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Hahahahahahaha. I never tried this before. Whats it like?
lmfao I have never tried cocaine. I just figured it might calm down the thr.... actually, you would all have enough extra energy enough to kill each other.
Nevermind!
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:42
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(A long time ago) When I was dating a guy who was a couple of years older than me, he was 17 and I was 15, we were really serious about one another and his parents (who had not really had much involvement in his upbringing) had an issue with us sleeping over at each others houses. His father called up my mum and really gave her grief about her letting us. She said "Well, if you'd rather they go about doing it at bus stops or on park benches because they aren't allowed in the house, that's up to you, but I know I would rather they do it somewhere safe and appropriate".
I have great parents, fortunately.
Mhm! Haven't people watched enough movies about "forbidden romances" ? 
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:45
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lmfao I have never tried cocaine. I just figured it might calm down the thr.... actually, you would all have enough extra energy enough to kill each other.
Nevermind!
LOOOOOOL. Yeah Idk man, I think that might backfire. Knives could come out.
Srsly tho it looks like everyone in here is cool now. This threads like bi polar. One second everyone's all happy and agreeing and the next salt is getting thrown and shots fired.
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Posté 25 mars 2015 - 03:46
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Hahahahahahaha. I never tried this before. Whats it like?
Then you come down and it's like
But thats just what I guess it's like. I uh I never tried it yeah......... *kicks can*
