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[Seboist]

What do you guys think about women dating men much younger than them self?
I'm asking because it seems to be the thing these days but personally I'm really against it if the age gap is huge like more than 10-15 years.

A friend of mine aged 39 left her husband for a 19 year old kid about 6 month ago.Broke up 18 years of marriage with 3 kids for someone that young. 3 months later the new boyfriend left her for someone his own age.
Now my big sister, who is/was single, just introduced her new 20 year old boyfriend to the family. She's 38. It looks absolutely ridiculous and im finding it hard to understand how she can be attracted to, what I would consider, a kid.

What are your guys opinions?

 

Those 19 and 20 year old "kids" are physically and sexually mature men whom can serve in the military and fight over in Iraq and Afghanistan if they so choose. Only in the pampered west with it's idea of extended adolescence and childhood are such men looked upon as "kids". Back in the day these "kids" would already be married and with children.

 

Quite frankly, the better question to ask is why these young men are interested in women whom are past their physical prime and approaching menopause when they have younger and much better looking women to choose from.

 

Regardless, it's their prerogative, not yours.

[Dio Demon]

As long as that woman is going around to High Schools for teenagers, who cares.

 

As my friend nicely put "Who cares who somebody else fucks?"

[Fishy]

I think it creepy if someone is just looking for people much younger than themself. Has for people falling in love with younger people. If they're major and vaccinated. None of my business.

 

 

Someone in my family started to date the woman of his life when she was only 19 he was 30. They been married for 25 years and have four kids. Lot of people lectured him about how she was too young. Most of them are divorced today and he still going strong.

[Cyonan]

At 18 you are considered a proper adult. At least where I live that means you are allowed to drink, gamble, or join the military.

 

I think if we're going to say that people are okay to choose to do those things at 18, then they're okay to choose who they bang(as long as that person isn't under aged).

[ObserverStatus]

What do you guys think about women dating men much younger than them self?
I'm asking because it seems to be the thing these days but personally I'm really against it if the age gap is huge like more than 10-15 years.

A friend of mine aged 39 left her husband for a 19 year old kid about 6 month ago.Broke up 18 years of marriage with 3 kids for someone that young. 3 months later the new boyfriend left her for someone his own age.
Now my big sister, who is/was single, just introduced her new 20 year old boyfriend to the family. She's 38. It looks absolutely ridiculous and im finding it hard to understand how she can be attracted to, what I would consider, a kid.

What are your guys opinions?

Half plus seven rule exists for a raisin tbh.

[StillEden]

As long as both people are old enough to consent it's no ones business but their own. Srsly, don't worry about what others are doing if it's not affecting you or illegal.

/thread

Well, it's not affecting me directly except that his is like the 5th very young boyfriend in last 2 years, and it always ends bad, and im the one having to listen to why they won't commit to marriage and kids...
And 2 weeks after, there we are again, new super young guy she's in love with whom she's convinced she's gonna marry and have kids with.

And I know it's not my business, which is why I never say anything bad to her, i just wanted to hear other opinions on the matter.

[TheLittleBird]

What do you guys think about women dating men much younger than them self?
I'm asking because it seems to be the thing these days but personally I'm really against it if the age gap is huge like more than 10-15 years.

A friend of mine aged 39 left her husband for a 19 year old kid about 6 month ago.Broke up 18 years of marriage with 3 kids for someone that young. 3 months later the new boyfriend left her for someone his own age.
Now my big sister, who is/was single, just introduced her new 20 year old boyfriend to the family. She's 38. It looks absolutely ridiculous and im finding it hard to understand how she can be attracted to, what I would consider, a kid.

What are your guys opinions?

 

I'm having a hard time understanding the bolded part exactly (I'm 19. Do you expect a 19 year-old to stay with you forever or something. Because I sure as hell wouldn't), but I'm with everyone else on the overall question.

 

In that, if both people are happy with it then it's perfectly fine. If anyone is opposed to it then screw 'em. It's really nobody's business except for the people involved.

[StillEden]

I'd also like to add that you can't help who you fall in love with.

This is true, but after a certain age it's not just about being in love. You have to consider a lot of other things too. A relationship is hard work and all the little things that you didn't think about will catch up with you quickly.

[Dio Demon]

I'd also like to add that you can't help who you fall in love with.

You can... it's all chemical.  Everyone has a measure of control over their feelings.

[TheLittleBird]

You can... it's all chemical.  Everyone has a measure of control over their feelings.

 

it's chemical, but it's not like everyone has conscious control over the way they feel. 

 

I sure as hell don't. If you do, then I'd love for you to teach me

[Dobby]

[Dio Demon]

it's chemical, but it's not like everyone has conscious control over the way they feel. 

 

I sure as hell don't. If you do, then I'd love for you to teach me

Call me Despair Sempai.

[Jeremiah12LGeek]

 

I don't care who's with who.

[mousestalker]

A lot of life's problems can be resolved by taking a cold shower. Or keeping your pants on.

Back on topic, if this something she keeps doing, has she noticed the pattern?

[Dio Demon]

 

Bury me, sempai!

 

*doesn't notice simfamSP*

[TheLittleBird]

He must be a robot to be able to flaunt such control over weak, meaningless chemical functions opposed to us pathetic humans. 

 

He may be a robot...

 

but at least he has great hair.

 

Also:

 

Despair sempai