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(commenting late on the whole offensive vs not thing) 

 

I am by no means a saint and nor do I think I'm any proprietor of social justice. I swear more than is probably necessary and I'm certainly crass now and again.  And I don't think I could be considered PC. (Though I don't think I would want to lol)

 

But the problem I find with this whole being offended or not having the time to care about offending people. Just makes one sound socially inept. Either that or you understand the probable offense that is caused and are apathetic to it. Which, at least to me, makes you look like a jackass. I get it's the interweb and I totally understand someone some where is going to be triggered/offended/mind raped/whatever.  Just sometimes  it makes me wonder if people have any decency or tact anymore.

 

Maybe I'm too sensitive I guess.

 

Sometimes I can be rather vulgar or make dry/dark humorous jokes and people might take offense to it, but I mean no perniciousness. It's impossible to please everyone, but I really don't see the problem in using phrases people might find offensive as long as I'm not directly (or indirectly) calling anyone such names. Sometimes I'll throw pointless insults at my friends on the forums but that's usually it.

 

But all anmity, arbitration and lashing out is really a form of suffering. Humans have evolved to suffer, and we are better at suffering than anything else tbh.

 

When we give nothing for the cheap shots to stick to, then something could change in the world. Just don't say a thing. In fact, it is usually better not to say anything at all. The ones who suffer on the inside, but not showing it on the outside are usually not too ardent on someone pointing out to them that they are in torment.

People just need to understand the full situation and move on. But the art of not being offended can help us experience less suffering and perhaps we have a chance to make the world a better place.

 

But some people don't want help, they'd just prefer to dwell in their own world. Either offer understanding or walk away.


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35 isn't old, but it's past it's warranty and is getting too expensive to justify much investment into it given it's age. Best to trade her in for a newer model at that point.

 

Wow.... you upset because you can't get a girl Seboist? Because no one would dare even look at that face of yours.



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I wonder if it is going to rain?


Here it comes. ^^^
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I love this thread.

On the offensive or not subject obviously there is a difference between joking with people you know and calling someone an insulting term. ESPECIALLY if that person has asked that you not call them that.

I've decided the regulars on the bsn off topic are harmless, and good folk for the most part. But I still think you should respect someone's wish not to be labeled in a certain way. Use any terms you want, but don't call people by it specifically. If that makes sense. Like the women in this thread that said they were insulted by being labeled as a cougar as an example.
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Dis thread is crazy and all but omina have to exit stage right.

Cause I gat some business to take care of.

Basically, I gotta b**** waitin for me in a brothel and she said she wants to taste sum of dis whiskey if ya catch what I'm sayin'.

See yall later. saywhat.


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Sometimes I can be rather vulgar or make dry/dark humorous jokes and people might take offense to it, but I mean no perniciousness. It's impossible to please everyone, but I really don't see the problem in using phrases people might find offensive as long as I'm not directly (or indirectly) calling anyone such names. Sometimes I'll throw pointless insults at my friends on the forums but that's usually it.

 

I am/feel the same way. (Well most of the time lol)

 


 

But all anmity, arbitration and lashing out is really a form of suffering. Humans have evolved to suffer, and we are better at suffering than anything else tbh.

 

When we give nothing for the cheap shots to stick to, then something could change in the world. Just don't say a thing. In fact, it is usually better not to say anything at all. The ones who suffer on the inside, but not showing it on the outside are usually not too ardent on someone pointing out to them that they are in torment.

People just need to understand the full situation and move on. But the art of not being offended can help us experience less suffering and perhaps we have a chance to make the world a better place.

 

But some people don't want help, they'd just prefer to dwell in their own world. Either offer understanding or walk away.

I'm catching that drift yo. 

 

I understand full well intent and perception are at play in the matter. I guess my comment was more of a vent at just how blatantly uncouth people can be.  

 

 

 

Maybe I'm just having trouble explaining my view clearly. It's been one of those days....


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Dis thread is crazy and all but omina have to exit stage right.

Cause I gat some business to take care of.

Basically, I gotta b**** waitin for me in a brothel and she said she wants to taste sum of dis whiskey if ya catch what I'm sayin'.

See yall later. saywhat.

 

Hurry up! I've been waiting for you.


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Wow.... you upset because you can't get a girl Seboist? Because no one would dare even look at that face of yours.

I wouldn't be so quick to say that, seeing how he has had two cougars show quite a bit of interest in him already.

 

Clearly he must be doing something right, despite not being desperate to defend every poor woman's honour on the internet.

 

And so must I, but I digress...



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Dis thread is crazy and all but omina have to exit stage right.
Cause I gat some business to take care of.
Basically, I gotta b**** waitin for me in a brothel and she said she wants to taste sum of dis whiskey if ya catch what I'm sayin'.
See yall later. saywhat.

Some of the things said in this thread have been offensive but this is over the top. Just what kind of whiskey are you talking about?
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I wouldn't be so quick to say that, seeing how he has had two cougars show quite a bit of interest in him already.

 

Clearly he must be doing something right, despite not being desperate to defend every poor woman's honour on the internet.

 

And so must I, but I digress...

 

 

And you can't let him speak for himself because?.......

 

And E-Ro isn't speaking for every poor woman, he is speaking for his woman, BIG difference dude.



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Hurry up! I've been waiting for you.

 

I had to stop and get bunny bread!

 

 

Some of the things said in this thread have been offensive but this is over the top. Just what kind of whiskey are you talking about?

 

Scotch whiskey!

 

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Wow.... you upset because you can't get a girl Seboist? Because no one would dare even look at that face of yours.

 

I thought he was pretty obviously making a joke, but you go ahead and run with that paragon of mature argument-making techniques that is insulting someone's appearance. I'll go check and make sure I didn't time travel back to high school, because I'm starting to think I've passed through some dimensional vortex.


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And you can't let him speak for himself because?.......

 

And E-Ro isn't speaking for every poor woman, he is speaking for his woman, BIG difference dude.

 

I can, but I figured I might as well.

 

And such a twist, I never would've suspected you to be an actual cougar too! So easily objectifying yourself as someone else's possession as well, it really does explain a lot from when I first met you... an hour or so ago.

 

I thought he was pretty obviously making a joke, but you go ahead and run with that paragon of mature argument-making techniques that is insulting someone's appearance. I'll go check and make sure I didn't time travel back to high school, because I'm starting to think I've passed through some dimensional vortex.

 

Guess she likes them as young as she acts?



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I thought he was pretty obviously making a joke, but you go ahead and run with that paragon of mature argument-making techniques that is insulting someone's appearance. I'll go check and make sure I didn't time travel back to high school, because I'm starting to think I've passed through some dimensional vortex.

 

Uhhmm... he just told my bf to trade me in for a "younger" model and called me an old lady. I would say my response is justified. I don't know Seboist well enough to know if he is joking or not.

 

Now off you go.



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I wouldn't be so quick to say that, seeing how he has had two cougars show quite a bit of interest in him already.

 

Clearly he must be doing something right, despite not being desperate to defend every poor woman's honour on the internet.

 

And so must I, but I digress...

 

That's right, I've bagged one of them already and will soon nab the other. I'm willing to give the older models a spin if they've undergone proper maintenance and have some appealing features I'm interested in.



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Uhhmm... he just told my bf to trade me in for a "younger" model and called me an old lady. I would say my response is justified. I don't know Seboist well enough to know if he is joking or not.

 

Now off you go.

 

There is so much drama in the off topic threads these days.


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There is so much drama in the off topic threads these days.

 

They're all just suffering. Go give them a hug.

 

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There is so much drama in the off topic threads these days.


Yes, akin to the lady on "Mystery".
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