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[StillEden]

Well I'm glad I didn't have kids with some of u guys. Pregnancy changes your whole body and it took me more than a year to lose most of the extra weight, but my body will never b as when I was 20, that's for sure. Imagine my husband running away because of that.
And sorry, but to those of u who'd get divorced if your wife wasn't super fit, how long have u been married?

[StillEden]

No one said anything about being super fit. The words used where in shape. Classic strawman tho. And yes, ANYONE can be in shape.

Anyone can b fit if they've got the time to keep fit. Remember, not everyone has time to go for a run or the gym.
And u never said how long u've been married.

[mousestalker]

Your fantasy:

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My fantasy:

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[mousestalker]

To be married and still in love at 90+? That's as good as it gets.

And thank you

[maliluka]

  Age may indeed be relatively a number, and a few differences in between is nothing. Yes love may be blind, you can go to the gym and work out all you want, but mother nature has a way of sneaking up on you. Physical beauty fades, unless you fill it up with silicone then you can look like a wax caricature of yourself.. however a 39 year old woman dating a 20 year old man..(and vice-versa) that would be like dating one of your kids, I mean when you bring them home to the family dinners do you sit them at the kiddie table . That is not a relationship.. that is a toy

[Eternal Phoenix]

If you're putting on weight from stuffing your face and then you stop washing, lay on the couch all day and perform dirty habits (picking your nose in front of your partner, farting in front of them etc) then I don't see how you could have any excuses for that other than laziness and that in itself is a huge turn off.

 

If you can't be bothered to respect your partner by having a bit of self-respect then why expect them to continue respecting you?

[Dio Demon]

Honestly if two people are happy let the be? Why do you have to judge them? I may be 21, but I know I want to have a family one day. Only reason why I don't try to have on now is that I want to be financially secure and have my own income. Most women my age haven't figured out what they want, they want to live in their eyes.

 

Age =/= maturity.

[StillEden]

No though, everyone should have time to take care of themselves. Unless you live in a village in the third world. If for some reason you actually dont have time to even go walking, watch what you eat.

And second, how long I(or anyone else) has been married is an irrelevant question that has zero bearing on this conversation. A long marriage does not equal a happy one, or a healthy one(an example being OWA's marriage). Anyway, im 20 so obviously I havent ever been married. But I know what I like, and I know what I want. If I am taking care of myself and putting work into my body(and I am, check my pics bruh) i expect the same from my SO.

Sorry, I'm not trying to b rude, but ur 20, so no point in me discussing this further with u. The fact that u think watching what I eat is gonna keep a woman past 30 who's had kids, stretched her tummy to 10 times its normal size a couple of times, then (in my case) had 2 c sections, meaning all my muscles in that area where cut twice and never really healed (I'm still numb certain areas), fit, says it all.
Also, we'll discuss what's important in a marriage once uve been with someone for some years, gone thru good and bad, medical issues, loss, financial problems, taken care of a house and ur family together and so on.Then tell me if looks still comes first in a relationship.

[Eternal Phoenix]

Sarah Palin has five kids and she looks pretty well for her age.

 

No one is asking for an athletic figure with no marks or scars, just someone who doesn't give up on their lifestyle because they've become "comfortable" with their partner and think that means they can do what they want.

 

But I suppose today's western society no longer care about healthiness which explains why obesity is on the rise both here in England and in the states.

 

"i-it's not a problem..."

 

Maybe not in the States but over here in England when tax payer's money is getting spent on obesity treatments because so many people refuse to admit they have a problem and exercise then it really is a problem that involves everyone else.

 

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[maliluka]

No it isn't. Its a human being with feelings, and emotions. A fully grown person that is old enough to make their own decisions. Referring to a human as a "toy" because they choose to be with someone older then them is pretty demeaning. Being with someone older then you doesn't turn you into an inanimate object. 

 

You don't get to decide for other people what is and isn't a relationship. 

Bravo! Yes you are free to state your opinion just as I am mine. Lets have this discussion again in a few years AFTER you have been paying your own bills and mommy and daddy havent been paying everything.

[The Hierophant]

If you're putting on weight from stuffing your face and then you stop washing, lay on the couch all day and perform dirty habits (picking your nose in front of your partner, farting in front of them etc) then I don't see how you could have any excuses for that other than laziness and that in itself is a huge turn off.

If you can't be bothered to respect your partner by having a bit of self-respect then why expect them to continue respecting you?

What? Did you just insinuate that obesity is unhealthy? That's fat shaming!

Bigot!

[StillEden]

Okay ma'am. We shall discuss it after all that stuff.

U better b back in 15 years to discuss this further!

[Scofield]

I don't care what anyone does, unless it affects me

[Eternal Phoenix]

What? Did you just insinuate that obesity is unhealthy? That's fat shaming!

Bigot!

 

What are you going to do about it sucker? Report me to FLAAD?

 

Bravo! Yes you are free to state your opinion just as I am mine. Lets have this discussion again in a few years AFTER you have been paying your own bills and mommy and daddy havent been paying everything.

 

So you're saying that you need to be living away from home and paying your own rent to be able to define what someone else's relationship is? Just because you had a bad experience with someone younger/older than you doesn't mean every couple with such an age gap are the same and that the younger is simply a toy girl/boy. Generalization isn't a good arguing tactic y'know?

 

 

Lol, pulling age rank on me? Ouch. 

 

Anyway, yeah my parents pay for everything. We are very fortunate, both my parents have excellent jobs and I am an only child(the world would be a better place if people had less kids, or stopped having kids they cant afford). They pay for my college, my food, my car, etc. But that's me. I have plenty of friends my age that work, and pay their own way(and remind me of that every five seconds). Soooo yeah. You took a wild guess about my financial situation and guessed correctly, but that could easily have been wrong. 

 

And anyway, your opinion was like saying "in my opinion 2+2=5" but meh. I wont argue with my elders. I dont wanna get put in timeout. 

 

It's a logical fallacy really, "I'm right because I'm older than you therefore my opinion is right and yours isn't" lol.

[Garryydde]

Did someone drop a stupid bomb in this thread?

[maliluka]

 

 

 

 

So you're saying that you need to be living away from home and paying your own rent to be able to define what someone else's relationship is? Just because you had a bad experience with someone younger/older than you doesn't mean every couple with such an age gap are the same and that the younger is simply a toy girl/boy. Generalization isn't a good arguing tactic y'know?

 

 

 

actually in my first post I was being HIGHLY sarcastic.. my second post was a direct response in the fact to "fully grown person able to make his own decisions" WHICH I correctly deduced that had not even left the nest yet, in which everything has been provided and paid for and has not had the limitation of a real relationship of stress placed upon it.. IE:.. rent, job etc

[The Hierophant]

 

What are you going to do about it sucker? Report me to FLAAD?

No i'm gonna make a thread about your comment on Tumblr, and bring righteous fury down upon you.

 

Bigot!

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Yes you've already said this once on page one, we get it, you don't care.
Then again, why are you coming back to a topic you don't care about? And who is forcing you? You don't care, fine, you're allowed to stay away.

just making sure you get it.