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I'm of the opinion that it makes more sense to look at situations like these on an individual basis, and not necessarily generalize by saying something along the lines of 'a 20 year old should never be in a relationship with someone in their 40's etc, or even older. Like some others have said, all relationships are different and there are exceptions to the rule. Yes the brain doesn't fully develop until between 18 and 20 or so years of age, and that physical and emotional changes are typically more frequent which could effect a lot of things, but from my point of view that doesn't necessarily mean that a young person can't be in a healthy relationship with someone older. I can understand why it might set some people on edge, the concerns are legitimate. However, I believe that age doesn't matter when it comes to love. So long as two people are consenting adults and there is no abuse going on of any kind (which can happen in a relationship regardless of age), not matter their age, if they want to engage with each other that is no ones business but theirs and no one should pass judgement until they get to see them together. You might find that they work together, even if one is older/younger than the other. Essentially, I know enough to know that physical maturity doesn't equal emotional/psychological maturity, people who are old can be less mature than people who are young, and vice versa. Because of that, generalizing that young people and older people shouldn't be in relationships with each other doesn't make sense to me. As with any relationship, there may be issues involving the age thing, but to me that depends on the people themselves and isn't true of all.
Long story short, imo age is just a number.
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