*Face palm...
Do you not understand that your kind of thinking caused the Dales to fall?
Not to derail this thread but.....
Do you not understand that Orlais was an aggressive expansionist empire that was also spreading its monotheistic religion of the one true god? And that one of its neighboring countries was full of non-human polytheistic pagans? Conflict was kinda inevitable.
And besides, during the 3rd Blight, Orlais kept to itself and refused to send aid to another country until the Grey Wardens' constant pressure forced it to do so. And during the 4th Blight, Orlais only sent a token force.
The Dales aren't the only country to look out for itself first before others.