Here's a fun little experiment for you to try.
Go walk down the street and assault someone. Preferably with a weapon.
When the cops show up, see what happens.
Will they politely ask you to stop what you're doing? Will they say "Please stop beating that person. It's wrong."? Will they request that you please obey the law because it's the right thing to do? Will they ask your opinion on whether what you're doing is morally acceptable or not?
Somehow, I don't think they will. I think they will demand you stand down. And if you refuse, I think they'll enforce that demand through violence.
Here's a fun little one for you:
Go to a party and tell someone, 'I don't believe in God'.
When the cops don't show up, and you are not thrown in prison and tortured, and your possessions are not confiscated by the Church... will you stop talking out of your arse, or is that the freedom you treasure the most?
That wasn't always the case. There was a time when all of those things would have happened, and worse. But, wouldn't it be nice to live in a country where we had the right to believe what we liked and say what we liked, where everyone was equal before the law and even the leader of the country had no more rights than everyone else? Oh, wait a minute... we do. Unlike people who disagree with the Inquisition in Thedas.
I suspect that this love affair of yours with authority stems from your lack of imagination to picture how it could affect you. Autocracy is great, if I'm the autocrat - not so much fun if someone else is. 'Hey, I'm opposed to stealing. Authorities prevent stealing -- no problem!' 'I hate trade unions, authority crushes trade unions -- great!' 'I like video games, authority makes video games illegal -- wait, hang on.'