Totally agree I'm against the mods that change appearance drastically (Isabella white mod) but I'm okay with different hairstyles, eyes colour or armours. People are free to use the mods as they like I'm not against mods their just visual fan-fiction or personal changes.
I love the mods that change the Skyhold attire.
I think context and reasons behind the mods being used by a person are important but the mods themselves are okay in the most part. I think a sexist will use a mod for sexist reasons but non-sexist won't and will have a different reason maybe they want all the characters to be perfect like a JRPG for example.
*I Don't think many true male sexists would play the Dragon Age franchise due to positive focus the franchise has on females as a whole.
And again I ask: Why do you care if some person on the other side of the world mods their single player game? Does it in any way affect you or anyone but that person?
Are there mods that are not polically correct, disgusting, sexist, degrading, silly and wrong? Sure. So what? You don't have to look at it. You don't have to use it.
I don't believe someone is sexist for changing their own experience with a game. It's just a fantasy, it doesn't affect anyone else. I mean, seriously?! It's not like walking up to a woman and telling her, "I'd date you if you get a nosejob and grow out your hair."
You could claim that someone who mods a game does not respect the developer's artistic vision. But that's it. Everything else is just a matter of taste.
Sexism, per definition, is discrimination based on gender and gender roles. Tell me, who does a mod discriminate against? The NPC? Not a real person, sorry.
If someone behaved that way towards an actual person, then it would be sexism. But what someone does on their own, without any victims... sorry, that's not sexism.
Just to repeat my point from my earlier post: I do not support these kinds of mods and wouldn't use them myself. But I would never dream of forbidding them, discriminating against people who use them or in some way look down on them.
The parallel to fanfiction works quite well. There are ~16k DA fanfics on fanfiction.net. There are thousands of artworks and stories on deviantArt. If I actually looked, I'd probably be able to find a few thousand more. Now, did BioWare ever speak out against fanfiction? In any shape or form? No, they did not. So why would it be okay to change the characters, stories, settings, mechanics etc of Dragon Age in fanfiction but not in mods?
Modding doesn't infringe on any person's rights. At most it would infringe on BioWare's intellectual property and/or violate the Terms and Conditions. Not that they'd ever know because it's a single player game and no one ever gets to see what happens in there.
It's really not a difficult point to understand...