Like there is times you see male character refusing to fight and recognize female characters as opponent cause they woman and it's often seen chivalrous, although in my opinion it's opposite, it's disminishing women as worthy opponents.
Agreed, the 'let's not take them serious' thing always makes me angry too. Speaking from a RP perspective though I haven't seen that in quite a while, unless it was actually used to underline the character of the man -- and usually not in a good light. It was actually a core point of Aveline's story in DA:KW.
In other hand there is aspect of violence towards women IRL, which is mostly violence towards women who can't defend so in this case it's not two fighters taking each other on, but it's more as assault, often one with sexual tones. I don't know if it's best that video games and other media portray this, I have seen it sometimes and well it's not something I'm that comfortable of seeing. This kinda of violence you don't see male characters suffering so much.
Let's not go there, shall we? Domestic violence is miles away from what we are discussing at the moment, and even then your wording 'we don't see male characters suffering so much' is very precise. Dark figures for domestic violence are notoriously high, but there seems to be general consensus that it is even higher where men are victims because society has a double standard. So let's just skip this. Nothing to be gained here.
In other hand I'd be glad of seeing more female characters being opponents or "canon fodders" than you see now. Meaning, that random enemies that you just kill, it's not different to me if it's woman or man. In other hand if I see powerful female character as enemy I have to fight, I think it's positive thing to me rather than negative.
Full agreement. Though again I think we are getting pretty far from the thread.
Men are usually more aggressive, prone to violence. Even male physiology backs that up.
If anything in this thread was sexist, it is this statement. Seriously. Did you type this with a straight face? Maybe you have some evidence from phrenology studies too?
That men are often treated as expendable isn't something which cancels out other sexism against women. It's a problem which is tied to how we view both genders in various contexts. I don't get why these discussions always have to be about point scoring and attempting to disarm arguments by looking for double standards.
Yep! Agreed. Which is why I'm trying to steer this discussion away from this confrontational political level.
There are other kinds of attractiveness, not being represented / explored here.
Actually I think they are. Personality still plays a huge role in DA games and is what I'd call the most important aspect of attractiveness, closely followed by intellect, beauty, etc.... what do you think is missing?
There's also the implication that we can't assume a woman can be attractive without overtly showing it.
Sorry, come again? I think we had the discussion above: Can a person (man or woman) only be sexy if s/he is wearing sexy clothing? I definitely don't think so, think of Isabela or Miranda in a potato sack. Though I will freely admit that I find Isabela's outfit darn hot and that it underlines (not makes!) her (visual) attractiveness. Just my $.02.
My point is that if we Cas and Isabella as the two archetypal female power fantasies it's kind of sad that the 'realistic' one is downplaying her attraction, and the other is playing up her sexual attraction to the point that other elements are less obvious in her appearance.
Uh, isn't that the entire point in them being different people, i.e. that they behave differently? Cass is a functional, no-nonsense, and highly devout woman. Isabela is pretty much the opposite. Why would you expect them to behave differently? I don't see how Isabela downplaying her beauty and Cass accentuating her physical advantages would be in-character. I really see no problem here!
P.S. And here I am posting again, sigh
P.S. 2 / Edit: Caught myself being imprecise with my wording. I still sometimes use 'attractiveness' when I mean 'beauty' or 'sexiness'. Attractiveness is much more than just the visual aspect. Corrected it all, I think, but if you still find it occasionally please read it with this in mind.