Male Shep/Kaidan Romance: My favorite romance ever! That romance is perfect and the wait til Mass Effect 3 was worth it for me. It seemed natural for me without romance hacks. You save his life in ME1. That's your bro your buddy you can't leave him behind. You re-unite with him briefly in ME 2 and he thought you were lost for good but finds out you're with Cerberus and is appropriately suspicious of your activities considering what you've discovered about them in ME 1, you try to explain and want him back but he turns you down. Then you re-unite again in ME3 and he's back in your crew, he ends up almost fatally injured by Eva after some time healing in the hospital and getting his favorite bottle of wine he rejoins your crew. I think the build up of that loss between each other is very "romantic" for lack of a less mushy word. I like that it's not "gay" it just is. As Kaidan mentions before the final battle he says something about being brothers in arms. The whole soldiers risking their lives for one another is again "romantic". :cries:
Male Mage Hawke/Anders Romance (Rivalry): A close second! The tension between the two!
Corny dialogue but I love it...
Anders: You are everything I hate, a mage who curries favors with the Templars! I don't know whether to kill you or kiss you. But these last 3 years, I can't stop thinking about you.
Then there is the heartwarming kiss at the gallows and Hawke saying, "I will always love you!" :cries:
Again not "gay" it just is.
Male Quizzy/Iron Bull: I like it because it doesn't take itself too seriously. The romance is fun, it's campy, watch words and all. The scene with Cullen, Josephine and Cassandra is just WIN.
Aside from that it's cute with it's corny Dragon's Tooth split in two mushiness. Again the romance just is.
At first I tried Dorian but his scenes were just... maybe I dislike that sexuality had to be acknowledged. I also found his humor annoying. Very The Princess Bride type of humor but not as funny I feel like Dorian tries too hard.