Kudos, OP. Always great when you find someone or something in the game that enriches the story experience for you/your character.
For me, that character for my canon LadyHawke was Aveline -- on the rivalry path. The perfect foil to trouble-making Hawke.
It was basically, the noble knight::the scoundrel rogue; city police-chief::anarcho-illegalist noblewoman (lol "noble").
(Arishok confrontation)
Aveline: that does not excuse murder!
Ilda: Eh, I would have done the same.
Aveline: >.<
Arishok: tell me, Hawke: what would you do, were you in my position?
Ilda: I would defend my people to the last breath...
Arishok: ... yep. I knew you would understand. Qunari, open fire!
Aveline:
!!!
Aveline: well the Arishok has lost it. Quick, we need to go maintain order!
Ilda: you do that. I'm taking Fenris, Merrill, and Varric with me instead. Bounce.
Aveline: ... *sigh*
City Guard: We're overwhelmed, help!!
Ilda: Get your men behind us.
Guard: They're too shaken up.
Ilda (to the guardsmen): If you leave, you're a deserter. You know what happens to deserters...
*guardsmen stand behind Hawke*
Guard: You'd make a fine captain-of-the-guard.
Aveline: >.<
(Jeven rally/confrontation)
Aveline: Jeven! You disgrace yourself.
Ilda: Hey wait a second, you people were with Varnell. So was I, save for the part where I backed out after Petrice incriminated herself! Abandon this idiot. Stand with me, instead!
Aveline: >.<
Jeven: D=