Ahh, the No True Scotsman fallacy. Or, at least, you're coming close to it. I was wondering how long that would take. I never said they represented the entirety of the movement, I just refused to look at them as a source because of their insanely idiotic actions and ideology.
It would be a No True Scotsman fallacy if I refused to accept them as feminists or say that "true" feminists don't act like that. I don't. I recognize the full spectrum of any movement. I only point out that any group or movement has people like that, and constantly bringing only what fringe groups do (which you do) instead of focusing on moderate center will get us nowhere.
You say this as though sexism is inherently bad when it isn't. Unless you want to go full Huxley and brainwash people in their sleep so as to uphold complete and total social equality. Legally and economically (I.E. the areas where campaigning and movements can actually make a difference), men and women are equal, and have been for decades.
Sexism IS inherently bad, just like any form of discrimination based on whatever person is (or what qualities they possess) is.
Also - laws are informed by culture. We've established this already. So is economy, to a significant margin. They react to changes in tastes and things people accept or reject - and do so even more swiftly in the world of today. So changing or discussing things of how, for example, females (or other groups) are still viewed through say, pop culture lens, can still reveal lingering prejudices and biases that influence both job opportunities or how people are viewed by employers or judicial court.
Let's take movies, for example - 20-30 years ago it was unprofitable to produce a large blockbuster that features a female heroine. Movies like Alien or Terminator 2 were exceptions that had proven that rule.
Yet - through discussion and pushes to change the status quo, today we have many more movies that feature strong female leads. This translates itself to more (and varied) job opportunities for women in entertainment industry, as well as success of works of people that feature female lead protagonist, that was always as good as one with the male lead, but were never given enough exposure, because the hero was the wrong gender (or wrong sexuality. Or skin color).
As you see, these things are interconnected. And even if things were "equal" on paper, they were (or still are) not equal in reality.
So, what, are those fringe people not feminists then? Because that's what it sounds like you're building towards. And I would hardly call them fringe when they make headline news in several countries, across several fairly well established newspapers and websites.
I keep saying that if you keep just focusing your attention on those fringe movements, you'll always have your idea about what feminism is - or can be - significantly warped.
Also - many things make headline news. The Mad Max MRA outcry example ALSO made it to headline news.
You can't forget that news today - especially those online - make money that way. They take the fringe group opinions or complains and air them simply in order to get more money out of people clicking on links and getting baffled or angry, while at the same time they build this ridiculous false picture of two (sometimes more) sides locked together in fierce struggle - or of a side who can't do anything other than make ridiculous complains.
I mean, ask yourself what makes better headlines - "Crazy feminists want to kill all men!" or "Today a group of moderate feminists gathered to discuss certain economic inequalities that still trouble women"?
This, in return, hampers rational discussion, because any mention of topics on which someone had a contentious opinion is being derailed by pointless arguing and excessive use of hyperboles.
"Gamer" isn't a sociopolitical or socioeconomic movement, now is it?
Yet some people try to make it so. Ever heard of GamerGate?
No, I'd say that they are gamers who are a*****les. I can't say they aren't a gamer or a "true" gamer if they call themselves a gamer. I CAN, however, condemn their actions and call them names based on that. They're anonymous internet trolls, nothing more.
So are they just anonymous Internet trolls and nothing more... or ARE they gamers? I'm confused whether you want to use No True Scotsman here or not.
Also - I never claimed that they're not gamers. But you'd laugh it off if people tried to say bad things about you only because both you and them identify themselves as such.
Treated equally I'll give you, but lol @ people of color not having equal rights.
They don't. Or, at the very least, they're not treated the same by law or law enforcers. How many cases of black people (innocent or in no way deserving treatment they've received) being shot or injured by police have to be reported for some people to stop laughing at it and consider it a serious issue?
I don't know where you live, but in the United States it's illegal to restrict a woman's access to contraceptives, in all states. Lack of reasonable sex-ed is gender neutral, I guarantee you. Those abstinence-only idiots and other scaremongers affect both men and women. Is it really victim blaming, or is it just someone pointing out that people can take steps to prevent themselves from being victimized? Because in my experience, it's almost never the former, and almost universally the latter.
Yet acquiring contraceptives is actually fairly complicate for a female. In fact, in cases of some contraceptives, it's even easier to get those in Poland than in US. I don't have to go through all those embarrassing and lengthy procedures to get my dose.
And lack of reasonable sex ed DOES impact women simply because it's them who have to deal with pregnancy. It's also no coincidence that there are more unwanted and teen pregnancies whenever sex-ed is limited to preaching "abstinence only".
Also - this whole "pointing out that you have to take steps to keep yourself safe" is usually just a smoke-screen for more subtle victim-blaming. It goes to such ridiculous extreme that it puts all the responsibility of securing herself from rape and harassment on woman and any misstep, mistake (or something that is not one, but some people will perceive it anyway) is immediately used as something to shift the blame on victim, while taking it from perpetrator.
It's a pretty schizophrenic mindset to live in and unless you're a woman, I don't think you ever had to deal with it - to live in a world where I'm being told that I have to take precautions for not being raped AND to be fearing the fact that anything I do will be scanned, scrutinized and used against me, in case something happened. It's ridiculous - yet it happens. I've seen it happen many times, including to people I happen to know or heard about.
Is it actual misogyny, or is it people on the internet taking advantage of their anonymity and being a****les because they can? Someone saying "that woman is a *****" is quite different than "all women are *****es". Likewise, "all women are ******es" in obvious jest is quite different than saying it with sincerity.
LOL, this argument is a double-edged sword, you know? If those are just some anonymous trolls (wait, isn't it No True Scotsman again?) aren't many radfems some anonymous trolls as well? (and no, MRA and anti-feminist groups that make silly, ridiculous statements do exist)
Also - you're all over the place right now. In the first sentence you literally state that people take advantage of their anonymity and being assholes, because they can and in last sentence you're saying that anonymous (I assume) sentences like "all women are assholes" are quite different than saying it with sincerity... So which one is it????