There's nothing wrong with sexualised content when it's openly and admittedly done for that purpose (at least in my view). We can have other debates about it at that point but the issue here is the excuse and veener applied to it.
Well that just raises this question
If there was any topic that warranted 56 pages worth of discussion, it certainly wasn't this one.
Still, at least we all know how to bring mass community attention to a subject though. If, for example, you'd like to suggest improvements to the war table, don't simply title your thread "War Table Suggestions". Lol, nobody's going to read that! No, you title it "Boobs War Breasts Table Panties Suggestions!" There you go! That's a 107 page thread right there!
Why so much energy and attention on the topic then? Why is it of such critical importance? Aren't there other things to focus on game-wise?
Why aren't we have the point behind the foursome in Origins? What was the narrative purpose of that? Was that realistic? Do people not potentially get STDs from practicing sex in this era?
Is it realistic for your commander and first sword and second assistant, and a pirate you just met, to all screw each other and then continue on business as usual as if nothing ever happened?
Of course not, there would be jealousy, envy, lingering hatreds/resentments/feelings and a whole host of issues. The fact that the DA devs and fans gloss over these things but go in depth with discussions of pounds per square inch on breast plates of the middle ages when it becomes to a bit of cleavage show how little they understand about sexual relations.
No, you don't get any of the same level of scrutiny, consequently it still seems off.
Is it realistic to have characters be standing there and like you more the more gifts you give them without any kind of conversation? Is it realistic for anyone to want to continue a relationship with you after you have been with even one other person for a short time? Is it realistic for characters to change their personalities and desires to fit your needs?
No I'm afraid DA has serious problems in just about every other aspect as far as "reality" goes when it comes to sex, but my point is the only place this comes up is when you have the cleavage girl or guy in costume, which incidentally, by comparison to the others, is perhaps one of the least offending.