I didn't, i had to delete my male Dwarf and be forced to play a female to get the only one that was passable to even try romances, that to me is incredibly poor writing and mechanics when you force customers into roles to enjoy their game...
It's poor writing and mechanics because
you didn't find a romance that you specifically liked?
That's fine for you, but not everyone likes to or has time to play that many different characters. I mostly self-insert, because it's the only way for me to have a relatable protagonist. They added options for more orientations so people of those orientations would actually have options, instead of having to romance no one or roll a protagonist that didn't have their orientation. If other people want to explore those romances and get something out of them, like I said, awesome. But that's not me, and it doesn't have to be. So I don't have 8 options, I have 2, and neither one suits me or my characters.
I get only wanting to play a certain type of character. That's fine. But at the end of the day, that's a limitation you place on
yourself.
I prefer playing dwarves. Because of this, I'll probably never romance Cullen. That doesn't make him less of an option, it just means I've set certain parameters for myself and, yeah.. they're limiting. But it's worth it to me because I love playing dwarves. On the other hand, I liked Solas enough to roll an elf even if that's not my first choice.
I'm not saying that anybody should HAVE to play outside their comfort zone (though... don't knock it til ya try it and all that jazz), but only wanting to play -- let's say -- a straight male mage elf PC who is only interested in female human mages, I mean... that's a self-imposed limitation, and some people act like Bioware's out to get them by not satisfying it.
I'm all for varied options in the game, but someone's always going to be upset that the NPC they want isn't interested in them, or pretty enough for them, or... It'd be like that whether we had two or
twenty LIs.