I preferred the opposite in games lol.
But in real life if you are in a relationship with someone shouldn't you tell them? Or will it be your secret for the duration of the relationship?
In games, during the time when Mass Effect and Dragon Age: Origins were first released, having bisexual characters (and homosexual characters, so long as they're not integral to the story) was a novel and supposedly "gutsy" (for lack of a better word) move... at least for AAA game developers. It still is, hilariously enough, going by how Mortal Kombat X had Kung Jin and one of the creators doing a Dumbledore by outing him via tweet. So of course, with characters like Anders and Kaidan, how their bisexuality was put into context within the story left much to be desired. One of the big reasons (EDIT; I think) why Kaidan couldn't be a same-sex romance option from the get-go was because queer characters in general weren't looked too fondly upon then. That's just the reality of it.
But it was only a few years later when game designers thought to amend Anders and Kaidan's sexuality. They didn't have to, but they now saw them that way, for better or for worse. But I think the limitations and the general feelings towards homosexuality, bisexuality, etc, back then unfortunately boxed those characters in. And, of course, we just assumed heterosexuality by default because of that.
I think how their sexuality was handled and written, despite how good they were, had been unfortunate because of the apprehension (for lack of better words) of portraying same sex relationships with a degree of respect and sensibility in games during that time.
Now, for real life, I don't know. Because I'm not bisexual. Their sexuality is their business. But I suspect that if they are in a serious relationship with me, they're already passed the point of having been comfortable enough with me to let me know how they identify their sexual orientation anyway.
No that wouldn't be a good idea as the feedback from players would be disgusting.
You players that see yourselves as members of the LGBTQ would flip out at the responses I think.
I mean you can see how some feel about BI people "letting their selves be known beforehand" right?
Now imagine the response to a straight guy romancing what he believes to be a female and then it guts to the romance scene and he sees it's a guy....
Ouch.
That Jerry Springer moment lol.
No it would cause mayhem I think tbh.
Transphobia is not unique to heterosexual people. Just like how expressing a degree of outrage at the bad comments against queer characters isn't just restricted to LGBTQ+ people. But yes, transphobia's also found in the LGBTQ+ community, so people- gay, bi, straight. Some of them would still freak out and make the loudest noise. And it's unfortunate.
That doesn't mean writing shouldn't be free to challenge that thinking though. Like having same-sex romances, gaming companies can only try (with a level of calculated risk), even if the progress has to be slow and long.