You're treading on thin ice here, mister. Speak for yourself.
Ooh, scary. What'cha gonna do? Say something rude? Nothing new there. 
Actually I had hell in Origins making a decent looking elf until I installed a preset based on Shianni's facial structure in the toolset.
Yeah, that's what prompted my comment. I had a heck of a time imagining a decent-looking elf until I saw the "Shianni facial structure" mod.
Then I found a Youtube tutorial on how to make a decent-looking female elf without mods (didn't follow it to the letter, but it had some decent general advice), and it hit me: the secret is making their eyes bigger than average, their cheeks as round and full as possible, and making a decently shaped nose. Before, I kept wondering, "Why's it so easy to make a pretty female human but not female elf?" Then I realized the human women tend to have big eyes, smooth nose shapes, and pleassantly smooth, plump, round faces. In the CC, elven women tend to have tiny eyes, weirdly shaped noses (either too big/full or too lumpy), and sunk-in cheeks, and harsh, pointy, bony faces. (Shianni and Nessa and Iona have softer and rounder features, and I think they look much prettier.)
I never liked the ones in Origins much, because they were too ordinary and human-looking, but, I have to agree, DA2 was just horrid. With the exception of Marethari who I thought was beautiful, but that had much more to do with her presence than actual physical appearance, I disliked the overall changes they had made, even if it did look like they were trying to tinker them into something unique and not just small humans with pointy ears. I did enjoy using TMP's DA2 elves mod which combined the best features of the two to make Origins' elves more like DA2's elves, but wasn't satisfied still.
With Inquisition, I was finally happy with my lady elf, and my canon Inquisitor turned out (in my mind) gorgeous. Just the hair was horrid. Bioware just needs to work on their depiction of hair (something sorely lacking in all three games imo).
Yeah. I personally didn't mind DAO elves looking a little ordinary, but I thought the devs went way overboard trying to make them look "zOMG SO EXOTIC AND UNEEK!!!" in DA2. They were just so alien and bizarre. I really like the middle ground they took with DAI: more stylized than DAO, but not quite so freakishly exaggerated as in DA2. It was definitely nice having an Elven PC I found rather pretty in DAI, without having to struggle so much like in DAO.
(But yeah, BioWare always has trouble with the hair.)