Those are two very different questions. So, yes to the first, no to the second. I'm not particularly interested in getting the second feeling myself.
Whether Bio thinks they need to give you that feeling is an open question.
Oh yes, so very different.... *rolls eyes*. I have expectations about video games and boss fights - if they can't deliver the basics then there really is no hope for them, is there? Maybe some people like that feeling of not winning, with no overarching feeling of "YES, I won!" and a lack of feeling accomplishment. I can;t imagine why though.
Well, its also up to me if I am going to buy their products anymore. Anymore crap like ME3 and I am done with it. As far as I am concerned, ME3 is a rushed cheap game with 8 bit running figures and those horrendous endings makes strike one. Strike two was treating fans like they didn't "get it", and calling people entitled brats, along with Mac Walters' surly attitude.
I play video games to have fun. They are my escape from work, traffic, taxes and just life in general. If they can't make games fun anymore then I won't be purchasing their products. ME1 and 2 delivered. ME3 was not even close - especially given its potential.