Love the default male Shepard face!!! His is the only one I ever use...but I think it is because trying to make my own guy who is both good-looking and manly was near impossible in the CC. The facial textures were horrific and the noses were way too weird...
For the female, I was rather put off by the default female face change in ME3. Thankfully, they did include the original default face as the first preset, which I always used with a hairstyle/color and eye color change only . When i tried to play femshep in ME3 with the new face, she looked...just...really weird to me. I couldn't even get to the part where she gets a gun. I absolutely hated it. Plus, I felt like the devs were saying they never really thought about the female face at all until ME3. I was a teeny bit insulted by that (but got over it quickly...life is too short to dwell on such crap).
So...my vote would be to have a good default male AND female face from the get-go. This is totally fine in a human-only game like ME. Just like it was fine for DA2.
BUT...I want to be able to modify the default face. I always wanted my default male Shephard to have dark brown eyes, but it was impossible to create him in the CC. Let me modify the default, dammit!! 