wonder if we played the same game...
The game is the same as itself no matter who is looking at it. What you seem to have overlooked is the implication of 'we'. You are a different person, are you not? Your experience of the game is different from someone else' experience of the game, but that difference isn't in what the developer and writers created, the difference is due to player individuality.
If many of us have had (are having) a wonderful experience but some of us haven't, the game itself is the same but we are different.
It is beautiful to those able to access that beauty, and not beautiful to those who cannot access that beauty. Thus, if you aren't able to appreciate the game then the source of the difference must be a characteristic of you.
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. If your perception is not adequately receptive to the beauty available, then the deficiency cannot be a characteristic of the game, but instead a characteristic of the player. You are different. We can recognize that and celebrate your individuality, even if at the same time we must mourn your unrealized potential.