No no, you mistake me. I didn't feel like I could answer your question. as far as what's objectively a "great" or "good" game. That's all. I know you were greatly disappointed in DA:I, but you offer criticisms without ripping into me or any fan of the game. Well, so long as they are respectful.
Thankfully, I'd say the overwhelming majority of the DA forum has been really cool with me. I try to be respectful of others opinions, and I've gotten flamed maybe a dozen times since I became fully active on the forums in November of '13. Sometimes though, it makes me sad to see the bashing that DA:I receives. The criticisms don't bother me at all, but the hardcore bashing makes me a little sad on occasion.
For the record, Ogre, I think you've been hanging out with the wrong crowd. I've seen nothing but great critic and player reviews of DS2. It hasn't been just on sites like Metacritic or such, but also on regular gaming forums. I tried the DS1 demo, and I couldn't hack it. The difficulty was too much for my sorry butt. If you can play and enjoy Dark Souls 2, then that was your money well spent. 
By the way, thanks guys for the video card recommendations. My husband checked our fiances and we were more flush than we thought. I've got the GTX 970 ordered and it should be here in the next couple of days. Come Monday at the latest, I should be able to game again. I appreciate the suggestions. It'll be nice to be able to do some modern gaming again. I love my GBA, but I miss games that are more than 16 bit. And I'm pretty sick of my PSP games. 