You're right, it's not.
I enjoy both franchises and would like to play different games, not the same game twice.
Been asking myself that question for over 20 years. The one that makes me the most puzzled is when this is over single player games. I can understand a competitive attitude in RTS/PvP games, or in an e-sports environment. Otherwise, it's silly and makes the gaming community overall far more hostile than it needs to be.
It's like someone telling me that I only have to like chocolate or vanilla ice cream. What about one of my favorites, chocolate/vanilla swirl? Am I suddenly supposed to decry the swirl idea and only stick with chocolate or vanilla because like a mix of the two means that I'm not a real fan of ice cream? If I do like chocolate/vanilla swirl, do I immediately decide that anyone that disagrees with me just doesn't understand ice cream? Is the person that created the swirl cone just trying to rip off another company by combining the two?
That's how asinine this sounds to me. As I stated earlier, I'd love to hear feedback. Give me more flavors! If TW3 has some good execution in their story, gameplay, graphics and/or combat, I think that BioWare could take notes.
It's folks going, "Well, I'm counting down the minutes until TW3 comes out and until then, anyone like that likes DA:I isn't a real RPG fan,*" sounds like a kid fighting with his friends over a favorite kind of ice cream.
Note: I'm not talking about the original post, but this is an attitude I've been reading an awful lot. Thanks to the fans that are giving some good feedback, and why you felt TW series did something more strongly than DA did.