Triss is love, Triss is life!
I like the cut of your jib, Akrabra.
I hope that's not meant to be as patronizing as it's coming across as.
There's mentions of rape and there's even blatant mentions of such (like the templar attempting to rape someone on fire for pete's sake) it's just not shoved in the player's face via cutscenes. The red templars are freaking being devoured by red lyrium, read how the freaking ocularum are made. There being some light in the story doesn't take away the dark that's there. It just means it's not covered in freaking grim darkness and honesty I for one am tired of grimdark games. You guys can have them. ALL OF THEM. *shoves all the grim dark games at them happily* I don't want them in mine! I'll take my daytime and you take your nighttime and I don't know why we can't both be happy?
Seriously I don't want the Witcher grimdark in Dragon Age. I really don't want another DA2 where everything feels ****** pointless because no matter what I do my character's screwed. I ****** despised that ****. The only thing that kept me playing DA2 was Fenris.
The ONLY thing I would want BW to take from the Witcher is goddamn side quest design. That's it. Not darkness. Side quest design. And maybe hair.
It was very good but it didn't grab me. And once I lost interest in the characters (which didn't take long because I wasn't very interested in Geralt and being stuck with mainly him wore on my patience to begin with) nothing else grabbed me and the combat failed to keep me and I went right back to Skyrim. *shrug*
(and before anyone says it I know everything didn't feel hopeless in Witcher 3. But the parts DA did grimdark relied pretty heavy on death!!!! trope).
Patronizing? Of course it isn't meant to be patronizing. I mentioned to you before that even if I don't agree with you, you make me laugh because you just have no filter and just say whatever you're thinking. I really do think you're adorable in that. If I offended you, I am sorry. It certainly wasn't meant to be offending in any way. 
As for the rest, I don't always like grimdark, but if you're going to go for a dark theme, I want a dark theme. I don't want to feel like I am watching an after school special. As before, I can't speak for anyone but myself, but I don't have to have every instance of brutality, racism, sexism, abuse, etc. shown. In fact, there is a lot I don't want to see, but if you're going to fill your game with that in mind, show something. Don't make everything a play to be read. I felt like DAI tried to sell me on how terrible things were, but meh. I really didn't care. I mean, we're in the middle of a war between two powerful factions....we should be seeing some pretty rancid **** at some point. It seems like every instance, the Inquisitor just missed it. "Oh, they were just killing tranquils! You just missed it!" , "The templars were just abusing some mages! You just missed it!", "Some templars are transformed into red lyrium monsters! You just missed it!", "Leliana was tortured for months and months! She only looks old though. She is still wearing her perfectly clean armor and has no bruises or blood. You didn't miss it, you just never see it!" I am not asking to see every abhorrent act or action, but it would be nice to see some. Would have been nice to see refugees look displaced, downtrodden and miserable. Instead, they're clean and laughing and standing about chit chatting the day away.
I think TW3 has a nice mix of both grim and light. DAI has a nice mix of light and sort of dusky. To each their own, though.
Yes, never kiss an old hag with dyed red hair. Yenna is Geralt's soulmate.
God, you're just so mean! Though Yennifer is the one with a hunchback.....