Everyone on those times were victims. And everyone knows that those who suffer more during war are the children and women.
Men were forced to serve, and god forbid they deserted. They might as well kill themselves. They had a duty and there was no way out of it. Being gay? Forget it. Might as well kill themselves too.
Women became widows, mothers without their children and the possibility of rape and murder in the horizon.
Kids ended up without parents and no home.
Now, before misunderstanding my words and going on a crusade, everything above is what happened during war times.
Things weren't easy and trying to depict those times with political correctness is really jarring to me. I hate the road the DA series took.
Yes it wasn't that gritty, as in the Witcher level, but still it used to be darker than it is now.