Actually, Elhanan would not praise it in DAI either. Elhanan is consistent in the subject matter he avoids in any game.
If you say so, then fair enough.
I still feel his point was either poorly worded or simply not smart.
Look, I fully understand no game is for everyone. Some people don't enjoy gore or seeing sex, and that's completely fine.
What is unfair and nonsensical is criticizing, imo, the game for having it.
Point is that both game companies have made errors and choices of priorities that are not always the best sell, be it color coded conclusions or sex cards.
The problem with your point is that Mass Effect's latest game had the color coded ending while the sex cards were dropped since the second game.
Therefore, since we haven't seen the next Mass Effect, Bioware still has to prove it has learned the mistake like CDPR learned their mistake with the sex cards.
Plus, CDPR went on record saying the whole thing was clumsy and stupid while Bioware, from what I remember, defended to the death their decisions from the endings.