Picking up a blood soaked teddy bear off a dead child whose dead mother and dead father were trying to protect in the Exalted Plains is not dark enough? What about picking the wedding ring up of a couple of scorched bodies in the Emprise du Lion is not dark enough? What about the soldier who is dying and gives the Inquisitor a ring to return to Commander Jehan? Or the last words of the woman dying from red lyrium poisoning where she asks the Inquisitor to place a letter for her beloved? What about the confession letter in the quest Caged Confession where Louis killed the brother of his love Linette?
The Envy demon slitting Cullen's throat even if it is the fade not dark enough? Or are gamers looking for Bioware to show an actually gang rape on screen? What is "dark" suppose to mean?
How many horrors of war need to be shown? Bodies being thrown into pits to raise them as the undead is not dark enough? The only way to stop it is to burn the bodies.
How far should a game made for entertainment go?
Some gamers are complaining about the SJW agenda but want to see the horrors of war depicted somewhat realistically. Both exist realistically. So I believe if one can be shown so can the other.
I don't want it to get to graphic with the example you describe, but picking up a bloody teddy bear or a wedding ring? Weak, it's absolutely weak. Besides, there are many other ways to show dark, gritty choices as both DA:O and TW3 has shown us.
When I want to use my imagination, I go and read a book, when I want a visual representation of something, I watch a movie or play a video game.
I'm an adult. As such, I want grown up games that don't pull punches and leave me to have to imagine all of the bad things. I want my games to be able to sock me in the gut. DA:I fails to do that as most of the time it feels like a game made for children. There are some language and nudity, but other than those bits, the rest of the game feels like it is made for kids.
Don't get me wrong, I still like more cutesy games at times, I love Plants vs. Zombies: Garden Warfar. But keep my Dragon Age games gritty and real.