Will you please stop lumping everyone together? I am a gay male who loves the Witcher series and also like games that have a social conscience. Good games can be made in multiple ways. I don't think being a "social justice" proponent is what make DA1 a good or bad game, and I don't think the Witcher series is good or bad because it eschews this. The games have way more to draw on than that.
Aww...Did I hurt your fragile feelings ? There is a proverb in the Malay Language that says :- "Siapa makan cili dia terasa pedas" which translated to English means :- "Those who eat the chili will fell the burn".
If you take a look at what I wrote, I said "these kinds of people". I did not name any individual names, I did not name any particular specific group. I just said "these kinds of people". So if you are getting offended by that, chances are you are those kinds of people and that's neither my problem nor my concern. Its yours.
Now onto other matters.
Video games are a form of entertainment, not a tool to develop social conscience. People play video games as a form of escapism, they do not play just so they can get lectured on some social ideology. Video games are a means for human beings to experience and indulge in their fantasies in a harmless manner. This is extremely vital as throughout history, humans have entertained themselves through various means, often violent and brutal. Gladiatorial events, duels, violent wars, etc. Now, due to advances in technology, we no longer have to employ gladiators or torture tools or fight duels of honor to experience our need to escape into a pocket universe to enjoy ourselves. We can watch movies and play video games, which is why these two industries make lots of money. That is the primary goal of video games...to entertain, not to lecture. If people want to be lectured on how to live their lives or how to think, they would turn to philosophy or religion, not video games.
As for you being gay, that is, once again, neither my problem nor my concern. RPG games exist to tell a particular story of an event or the world or of a particular character or a combination of these things. They do not exist to give straight people or gay people or trans people a social conscience. The moment you start playing a video game, you are a Gamer. Only your rig's specs, your skill, your capacity to comprehend the lore and your internet connection that matters. Your preference for a particular reproductive organ or sex is not relevant.
That, I think, explains why I think social justice or social conscience is bad for video games. It stifles the ability of the entertainment content creator, in this case, video game developer to code in the fantasy they want to tell for the fear of causing offense. Social Justice, just like Puritanism, Mob Rule and Vigilante Justice before it, becomes a dictatorial means by which thought crimes are made reality, censorship is rampant and a particular social agenda is pushed by certain groups of people, because feels.
This is also why CDProjektRed is far superior to Bioware. CDPR do not shackle themselves or concern themselves with social justice nonsense, unlike Bioware. As a result, they can write whatever they want and portray whatever they want in order to tell the story they want to tell.
Take the quest about the Baron and the Botchling for instance. It was a quest involving cuckoldry, spouse abuse, alcohol addiction. CDPR did an oustanding job of portraying how grey each and every one of the character in that quest is. Do you think Bioware would have done that ? I don't think so. Bioware would have portrayed the Baron as this bad evil misogynistic abuser and that's about it, because social justice and because feels. They would never have done the quest as good as CDPR did it.
Or what about Ves in Witcher 2, especially if you follow Roche's path ? Ves ends up getting raped in it. In the Enhanced Edition of Witcher 2, you as Geralt can choose to save a sorceress from being raped. CDPR showed us what happened because they could. You think Bioware would have ? Nah, they would be too worried about causing offense. They would be upset about pissing folks on Twitter, Tumblr and Fakebook.
Or what about something other than Witcher. Take Game of Thrones. That television series has incest, murder, rape, torture, etc. Think someone concerned with social justice and social conscience would make that television series ? Nope, they won't because they are worried about causing offense. Because of feels.
So yes, while Witcher 3 does have way more draw than DAI for other reasons, the lack of censorship due to social justice weasles, neo-puritans, self righteous people is a major reason for their success. They can do what they want and tell the story they like. Unlike DAI, where the Qunari are watered down from their DAO versions, where brothels are gone and where Desire Demons are nonexistent because feels.