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[Decepticon Leader Sully]

I himestly think this is a worth wile cause Seeing as around 80% of all suicide victims are male.

Btw yeah Danny is the guy who Chanty Binks yelled at.

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[Kaiser Arian XVII]

it will take time for men to open up,those who are abused usually hold it in.we live in a time that men are living getting use to having their rights being depleted &at the same time being swallowed up and consumed by the development of womens rights. Men wont open up and express how they’re abused because of constant political and legal threats put upon men to keep them silent by the system.Thats why we hold it in.(internalizing and taking one for the home team).Now a days men are considered to be guilty first until proven innocent.Alot of men just give up and unfortunately commit suicide.There isn’t even housing out there to help single father pay 70% of your income to FRO for child support ,try to see your kids by taking them out,drop them back to there mom’s and go to sleep in the car again.Laugh out loud having a full time job and cant get a place to live because the system is raping you at the same time (financially).Then add that on top of the sexual abuse,verbal abuse,psychological abuse et.c .Good luck Dan don’t give up ! Eventually the dam will brake and men will open up,or at least i hope!

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Kinda my sentiment too. Equality dose not go one way.

[Rorschachinstein]

Don't have children and never get married. Problem solved.

[Kaiser Arian XVII]

I bear so much Misandristanding myself however.

[TurianRebel212]

Don't have children and never get married. Problem solved.

 

 

Naw, you can have kids. But if you marry always get a pre-nup and make sure she works (less alimony that way). But yeah.... You can't trust women in today's society. They're all entitled and will lie, cheat and manipulate you without qualms. Every dude I know that is married for 5+years is misserable. I know no happily married men, as in real marriage, not the honey-moon stage. They're all a kinda miserable bunch. 

 

 

Also, I don't think men need marriage. Marriage as always been for the woman. To provide security, stability, a home, money and a title. But now, with women working and with young women actually making more money than their male counterparts, I think marriage is a thing of the past. But..... men keep getting duped into it and they keep doing it without protecting themselves and THEIR assets. Pre-nup, pre-nup, pre-nup. If she really does LOVE you, then she'll have no problems with signing the pre-nup. Afterall.... isn't that what it's about.... "True love", lol. 

[Althix]

Don't have children and never get married. Problem solved.

married, have two children. i see no problem.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

its a bit coplicated to be honest.

Short story that i know was he faced false alligations was put in jail was neayly killed a few times there by inmates and cops themselves.

but thats all i know.

[Akrabra]

Naw, you can have kids. But if you marry always get a pre-nup and make sure she works (less alimony that way). But yeah.... You can't trust women in today's society. They're all entitled and will lie, cheat and manipulate you without qualms. Every dude I know that is married for 5+years is misserable. I know no happily married men, as in real marriage, not the honey-moon stage. They're all a kinda miserable bunch. 

 

 

Also, I don't think men need marriage. Marriage as always been for the woman. To provide security, stability, a home, money and a title. But now, with women working and with young women actually making more money than their male counterparts, I think marriage is a thing of the past. But..... men keep getting duped into it and they keep doing it without protecting themselves and THEIR assets. Pre-nup, pre-nup, pre-nup. If she really does LOVE you, then she'll have no problems with signing the pre-nup. Afterall.... isn't that what it's about.... "True love", lol. 

Am i the only one that actually believes in true love? Fate? destiny? you know the things that dreams are made of. I rather be hopeful, cheerful and romantic instead of joining the rest of the humans in cynic town. 

[Dermain]

Am i the only one that actually believes in true love? Fate? destiny? you know that things that dreams are made of. I rather be hopeful, cheerful and romantic instead of joining the rest of the humans in cynic town. 

 

Prepare to be disappointed.

[Treacherous J Slither]

Don't have children and never get married. Problem solved.

Quoted for troof.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Nah man its hormones glands and sqiusy noises.

[Althix]

 you know that things that dreams are made of.

my dreams made of cold calculation, assessment of the situation and creation of far-reaching plans.

 

also example: i have a... pen-friend? from states. 6 months ago i lost contact with him, however in his last letter he did mentioned that he lost a job. and that means he dropped out of the system. because he have to pay his taxes and his debts like loans for education, house or car etc.

and from my understanding as soon as you can't pay for your existence, you become a lowest trash with very few choices about what to do next.

 

kinda sad approach, even despite the fact that in these nights price of human life is so low, given how many of us on earth.

[Akrabra]

And i even had a typo in there, great way to start the day. Maybe i will be dissapointed some day, but until it happens i still have no reason to be otherwise. My parents have been together for 35 years, and yes it hasn't always been great, but they are still strong. And they are happy. So i see it as a possibility.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

You know this is about mental health and DV shelters for men right? 

[Akrabra]

I do, i just needed to air some stuff out. Using the forums for my personal opinions and thoughts, as people do these days. And i totally agree with the topic btw, just not much else that needs to said. 

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Yup.

[Naughty Bear]

Just wondering. If I don't have a pre-nup, will the money I have saved in a hidden bank account has to be shared as well?

 

I fully intend to do a pre-nup.

[Althix]

i believe if somebody will find out about this account you may and, most likely, will have some problems or complications.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

I you are refereeing to me and my beliefs i simply do not care. my view is every one should be equal and being a massive Ahole just makes you look like an Ahole.

[Althix]

should be equal? how so?

 

in my understanding we all should be equal before the law. nothing more.

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Exactly my view as well.

[Bayonet Hipshot]

@Darth Su Lu Pi :- I like your new avatar. 

 

As a man myself, I think it is good to see other men finally standing up for themselves. Most men are content to just let shite slide without fighting for it. I know a few men who have committed suicide. Some succeeded, some didn't and now are critically injured for the rest of their lives. 

 

To those who are men and who are thinking of getting married, don't do it. You are effectively putting a Sword of Damocles over your head. Pre-nups can be and have been made irrelevant or tossed out of court or even torn up in court so it will not save you from getting your life completely ruined by the family court system. All pre-nups do is give the lawyers and the judiciary more money. I would not encourage men to cohabitate with women either since there are now common law marriages legislation popping up all over the world where you are considered "married" by the state which allows the woman you are cohabitating with the entitlement to take half of your stuff away. 

 

As a man, if you want to have a romantic relationship with a woman, do it but be aware of the risks. Do not cohabitate with her, instead meet with her on dates or what have you. She has to have her own place and so do you. Do not have a romantic relationship with a woman who makes less then you since that can be leveraged against you in court to take half you stuff away because you will be viewed as the provider in the relationship. Have romantic relationships with women who make roughly equal amounts of money or more than you. Even then, be aware of the possibility of false accusations such as false domestic violence accusations or false rape accusations that a woman can start which can ruin your life so make sure the woman you want to romantically involved with is really, genuinely trustworthy. 

 

As for children, either pursue adoption or legal surrogacy. It is common for women to use children as ransom in a divorce to extract more money from you, regardless if you are married or not (see common law marriage). So get a legal surrogate and even then, be sure to write up a proper contract so that the surrogate mother can't just take away the child from you later or can't use the surrogate child as a source of child support. 

 

Or you could look at all this devolving of the relationships between the sexes, give it the finger, go your own way and live your life as a bachelor. Casual friendships, domesticated animals as pets, hobbies and having life goals are just as fulfilling, if not even more so than romantic relationships. If you want to satiate your sex drive, there is pornography and legalized prostitution or sex toys or the upcoming virtual reality pornography.

 

Cheers, and have a nice day. 

[Decepticon Leader Sully]

Its wasp