They have a conversation. They need to investigate Cerberus but that doesn't mean Shepard's group. It's a big planet. There are other places to go check on. Ashley leaves because she's mad at Shepard. He offers for her to join she says "no go F yourself". That's why she left. They have things to do. There might be more collectors around. It's not time for a long pow-wow.
Shepard's group is Cerberus. That means Cerberus has arrived. That means the focus of the investigation is there. Where else would they be going when they have the biggest source of info right there?
Ashley leaves because, as she says, "I want to believe you, Shepard, but I don't trust Cerberus." Kaidan tells you pretty much the same thing and also to "Take care, Shepard." Yeah, I can totally see how they want to rip Shepard apart. Sure, they're not happy, but they're absolutely nowhere near as freaking hysterical as you describe them.
First, they knew he was a spectre because that was ME1. It was on all the vids and even James saw it. Second, the alliance didn't send one person. It wasn't just Ashley that was there. Besides this is a freakin game and bodies are not numerous. Towns don't have 8 people in them but games represent towns that way. So should they have had a full platoon of 30 guys? This isn't being realistic. And maybe there were other squads at other settlements on the planet. You don't know that.
Wrong. Shepard had to have their Spectre status reinstated in ME2. Sure, they were a Spectre in ME1, but unless you see the councillor in ME2 and agree with getting the status back, you're not a Spectre in ME2. Whether you accept or not, the councillor sees Shepard alive and knows they're with Cerberus, and thus can share this information with the VS who investigates Cerberus, which would be logical... except that the councillor fails to do that.
"This is a freaking game," is not an excuse. When you resort to this kind of excuse, it means you have no proper arguments to give. The fact is we only see the VS and they only ever talk about the VS. We don't even see one more marine anywhere just for the atmosphere. And, yeah, when the colonies start to go missing, I fully expect them to send more than one person or at least make it look so. If one single visible person to protect the whole colony is realistic to you, but thirty isn't, then I don't know what to tell you.
VS is pissed at you. Can't you understand that. VS feels betrayed and doesn't want to see you face. VS would love to kill you. VS is not going to listen to reason or logic. You are no longer Alliance and VS (especially Ashley) is hardcore Alliance. Now add in that they were probably a LI and it makes it even more likely they leave you. Ever been in a relationship that went bad? Millions have and some breakups are not nice. Often the two sides won't even ****** on the other even if they were on fire. This reaction is 100% plausible and legit.
Have you actually listened to the damn conversation or are you okay with making everything up like that? Yeah, the VS gets hurt and upset, especially when you mention Cerberus, but they sure as hell wouldn't hurt Shepard. There are no threats, no swearing, no I-hate-yous, no yelling, no nothing. They pour out their heart, quite understandably, and eventually leave because they want to have nothing to do with Cerberus, quite understandably. Which is what I've keept saying the whole damn time. I don't know where you get your ideas from. I don't even...
And I sincerely still don't understand what you are freaking getting at. Do I have to repeat for the 150th time that I am perfectly okay with them leaving and that I respect their feelings and decision? Which part of it do you still not understand? Do I need to draw a picture for you? Something nice and colourful that explains that I just have a problem with the fact that they are neglected as characters, and totally NOT with the fact that I don't get to knock them down into that grass and do some steamy-romancey stuff with them or something... How do I get that information through? I seriously don't know any more.
And, no, while I have had my share of bullshit, I've never been in a relationship where we'd want to physically harm each other. Do you even realise what you're saying? Do you even realise how sick that is? Like hell Ashley or Kaidan would do something so low and I'd rather not think about the implications you're giving out right now.
That's you. As I said it's based on your taste. Maybe some other Shepard/Ashley combo would rather them shoot at each other or punch them out. Just as valid as your wants. So my little exchange is completely plausible and completely valid.
See you can decide how Shepard reacts but NOT Ashley. In my conversation Shepard tries to explain but Ashley wants nothing to do with it. Just because your Shepard is all lovie-dovie and paragaon doesn't mean Ashley has to respond how you want her to. That was Bioware's choice not yours.
Except that Ashley is an established character that's never behaved in the way you describe. You've just said that I cannot decide how Ashley reacts, but then you grossly mischaracterise her. And there you go with putting words in my mouth again.
You obviously understand absolutely nothing of what I have said, nor you are trying, even though I have gone out of my way to describe it, and I am done here. I'm sincerely tired of you constantly accusing me of stuff I have never said.