Ah, you want to give players the option for the protagonist to behave as a bigot in game?
Nope that makes no sense to me at all.
And what would that look like in the dialogue tree?
'Actually Krem I'm going to refer to you as 'she' because' I'm an ass and I want to disregard your experience...'
'Yes Dorian, you should get yourself magically 'fixed' because my preferences of normality must be imposed on everyone else...'
BioWare are more than entitled to tell a range of stories.
If some players have irrational hang ups about some of those stories then that is their issue, not BioWare's.
And that is pretty much the stance that has been articulated by them.
No. I want to give them the option to disagree with transgenderism. I don't care to be outright rude or hateful about it, but some players might want that roleplay option. Heck, even I might want that option if the next custom character is a strict adherent to the Qun. That doesn't mean I agree with the sentiments however. I imagine that if I play as a Qunari I'll be doing a lot of things I personally disapprove of in real life.
So what if it doesn't make sense to you? Why is that a reason to oppose its implementation? Players have the option to commit murder in the game, but we all oppose that abhorrent act. Why is being "bigoted" (or the accurate word, "hatful") off limits but being homicidal is not off limits? Double standard?
Personally, for my Inquisitor, it would look like, "Listen Krem, I accept you and respect you as a person, but I disagree with what you're doing. I don't believe it is right. Objective, physical reality tells me only one thing, and I can't deny this irrefutable truth." Or in regard to The Iron Bull telling my Inquisitor, "I have horns. You shoot fire out of your ass. We're not exactly qualified to go around deciding what's normal." Paraphrased of course. But my Inquisitor's response would be, "I'm not deciding what's normal, I'm acknowledging what's fact and what's not." The Iron Bull then replies, "Yeah? Well why don't you go acknowledge it elsewhere? With all due respect... boss." The Iron Bull Disapproves.
Dorian's case is entirely different because it is based on where the writers want to take him. So obviously there won't be a choice to change him through blood magic, or the more logical method, tranquility. Personally, my Inquisitor would have supported Dorian's freedom to choose his own path, but he also would have pointed out the merits of parenthood and reminded Dorian of exactly what he was sacrificing in order to walk that path.
Their problem becomes BioWare's problem if enough fans disregard the series because of all these stories that leave no room for player choice. My point this whole time has only been, what's the harm in allowing the player to respond to these stories in a disagreeing manner? I mean, this is the case with every other storyline, from mage freedom to who should rule Orlais. Why are the issues of gender and sexuality off limits?