Fair enough I can relate with this idea. Guess I'm out of their target audience. Consequently I shall not buy their products any longer. I conclude my discussion with you Sir. Enjoy the next generation of BW games.
On a lot of levels I might agree with the bolded part but not on gender. This is not an opinion but a fact. People might prefer being something different or prefer the same sex company (which is legitimate) but this does not change the fact they are born with a specific detemined gender which is something different from how we perceive ourself. I might consider myself close to Swedish people in the way of thinking or preferences but that doesn't change the fact that i'm German because I was born as one.
I'd like to make the observation that this is not about biology, this is about respect.
I'm a 50 something white, straight guy, so what do I know about experiencing hate and discrimination?
Nothing really, actually BSN has been a real education, my daughters are quite impressed with my new understanding of the issues.
So if there is a trans character (Krem being a pretty minor character in the scheme of things) in the game
I'm incredulous that not being able to belittle that character's view of themselves is of itself a reason to abandon support of the franchise.
And I'm concerned about this issue, not to deprive you of a choice, but because
offering a choice to be hateful about a trans character's gender identity is disrespectful of real life players.
I don't buy the argument, 'you have it pretty sh!t in real life from some people, so you won't mind us harassing you some more in the game'...
So the only reasons I can ascribe to the extreme reaction:
'Let me disagree with the trans 'man' or I'm not playing your games'
has to motivated by hate or ignorance, I mean what else could it be?
Usually, as evidenced from other Krem threads, pronoun errors are down to ignorance.
I particularly like this short explanation on a nice little website 'Transwhat?' from which I'm going to quote a brief section
for the reason that once it is understood, why would anyone make a stand on principle of disagreeing?
[Extract] "I'll be using the word trans as a shorthand to describe people who:
Are born with bodies that were assigned male at birth, but do not consider themselves to be men or boys.
Are born with bodies that were assigned female at birth, but do not consider themselves to be women or girls.
Okay. Now, here's my bottom line.
If someone says "I am a woman," or "I am a man," or "I am ____," please take that person seriously. Our cultural framework tends to tell us that their bodies may contradict their statements — that there's no way you could be a guy with XX chromosomes, or a genderless person with an obvious beard. But the trans person is the one who's right, and the simplistic framework is the model that's wrong. Gender is not dependent on physical appearances, or on the word of doctors, friends, family. The individuals are the ones who get to assert their own identity.
Transsexual women genuinely are women, regardless of their being born with bodies that people tend to consider "male."
Transsexual men genuinely are men, no less so than any other man.
And when people say that they are neither male nor female, that is an actual experience that they're undergoing: they truly do not feel comfortable when people think of them as one or the other.
It is disrespectful to call people by certain pronouns or names when they request otherwise. It is disrespectful to say things like "You're still my son" or "You'll always be a woman to me." Trans people are truly, unavoidably, fundamentally not members of the genders that they were assigned at birth. An individual who has transitioned is not an "ex-boy" or an "ex-girl." A trans man, though born with a reproductive system that is most commonly found in females, is not (and never has been) a woman; though he was labeled as a girl when he was young, that label was incorrect. He is a "real man," despite the unusual condition of his body at birth. I hope that's clear enough!"
So given that information, which I only learned within the last year, it has to be said,
why on earth would I from some semantic stubbornness insist on disagreeing with
how another character, and by extension, other players conduct their identity and their life?
That's why BioWare are not following an agenda, they are just trying to be nice to all their players
including some who have had a pretty raw deal in the past.
Who am I to deprive the pleasure of the game to others because 'my world view' trumps theirs?