This is actually an general issue Bioware is having as of late. They're making the DA series into some odd utopia were differences are somehow suddenly accepted without issue. Rather then fighting the issues Bioware runs from them. It ranges from Bull atrocious comment of how the Qunari would accept someone such as Krem. And originally by the lore, they would never ever accept Krem from who he is. Or how aparently no one seem to care about Dorian's homosexuality. Only his father does. And even then, it seems to be more about Dorian ignoring his "duties" rather then him being homosexual. The DA series aways had a lot of bigotry that we needed to deal with, but now, it seems that such prejudices had been reduced to elves and mages only. All other social issues seems to be gone, as if they never existed in the first place.
And honestly, that's not really progressive. It's just lazy writing in my opinion.
I'm rather curious, but weren't elves and mages pretty much the only people folks had prejudices against in DA:O and DA2? I honestly can't remember anybody else.
I can't remember that there had ever been problems in the Dragon Age series concerning someone's sexuality. There have never been negative comments if you romanced somebody of the same gender, so why should Dorian's sexuality be treated differently? Why should someone suddenly care that he's gay if it had never been a problem in the past games?
It seems to me that people here want Tevinter to treat homosexuality the same way homophobes in our world do, even though we're talking about Dragon Age here. That disturbs me a bit, to be honest.
Weekes also said that Qunari do see gender differently and it makes sense. But oh boy, people have mentioned this pages ago and nobody wants to accept that fact. It's understandable if Sten had been irritated by the warden, because he saw her referring to herself as a woman AND a warrior. Maybe he would have been alright if she saw herself as either the one, or the other. Both though, that didn't make sense in his mind.
I don't see how that's lazy. Progressive writing doesn't mean you have to shove sexism and racism and other prejudices into every problem a game tries to tackle, just to have somebody point out that it's wrong later on. It gets really tiring for people who are actually part of that minority, because there's just so few media out there, that does not treat them as a big deal.
It's a fantasy world, it doesn't make sense to compare it our reality and then go "That's unrealistic. Too few prejudices".