knittzu wrote...
EccentricSage, I can't recall -- what is her first banter with Zev?
filaminstrel, "less deadening", heh I love that. 
For me, I found her lecture about the PC's relationship with Zevran much worse than her other lectures (not that his near-stranger has any right to lecture another adult about his or her affairs at all, but that's another issue altogther) is that with the others, she at least claims to be concerned about people getting hurt. With Zevran, it's all about appearances -- the Warden being involved with trash like him doesn't fit her romantic, utterly mistaken image of the GWs and she's pissed off that you aren't playing your role correctly. Apparently (from above) there's a dialog option that brings up "then Zevran will get hurt" but I've never encountered that in my play throughs. It's always "this behavior doesn't befit a Warden" blahdeblah, because the Grey Wardens that populate Wynne's heads are saintly beings who exist only to willingly, gratefully sacrifice themselves. They aren't allowed feelings or desires or even humanity.
And as ejoslin pointed out there's also her *tone*, and that's impossible to recapture in text.
My warden also pissed her off about that in another discussion. LOL GRIFINS!!!
But she has very high aproval of Dristen, and they got along great in other convos about her past, so, I don't completely hate her. Just wish there were an option in the dialogue to tell her she still treats people the way she treeted that aprentice. She needs to hear that because she obviously isn't aware. I can understand hoe the Circle did this to her, but it's time to wake up.
Spoilers below.
As for their first banter, the first thing she ever says to Zevran is:
Wynne: "You must know that murder is wrong, I assume."
Zevran: "I'm sorry, are you speeking to me?"
Wynne: "That is why you wish to leave your Crows. A chrisis of concience."
Zevran: *sarcasticly* "Yes, that is exactly it."
Wynne: "Joke if you wish, but I have the feeling that deep down you regret the life that you lived."
Zevran: *flipantly* "It's true. I regret it all."
Wynne: "Ugh. Must you be such a child? Are you incapable of a single serious conversation?"
Zevran: *ironicly* "I know. I am terrible and it makes me sad. May I rest my head in your bossom? I wish to cry."
Wynne: "You can cry well away from my bossom, I'm certain."
Zevran: *flipantly* "Did I tell you I was an orphan? I never knew my mother."
Wynne: "Egad. I give up"
The worst part is that her first impression that he has regrets is actualy true. Which only makes the way she aproached him and how cold she was towards his deflections all the worse. No matter how true something is, when someone is trying to take ownership of such personal insight, trying to use it to patronise you, it will only make you feal like you have to deny it and fight it to protect your own integrity. It was realy very low of Wynne, wether she realised it or not. It's exactly the sort of thing that would make one hate her if they were her aprentice... having someone who uses even the most obvious insight as a way to lord their moral superiority and rightiousness over you. Ugh. And to try to have such a conversation with one's peers present is very cruel, really. Humiliating if not... well... deflected.