filaminstrel wrote...
Eh, she's had enough time to train several apprentices, at least. I don't really see how one can dispute that she's spent much longer in the Circle than your PC, who hasn't spent a day in the Circle post-Harrowing. And that's really the issue, I think (from her POV), moreso than what you've done for the Circle, per se. It's the time spent there. I mean, any Grey Warden hero could have come in and saved the Circle just as well, mage or no, thus doing their duty to the Circle, even if they had no such duty.
My mage gave all of her childhood to the Circle, and that was more than she would ever have done willingly. They owe
her something they can't ever repay, not the other way around.
Of course, if you have a high enough approval with Wynne to get this dialogue, she thinks you like the Circle as much as she does. My PC took every opportunity to tell her how much she hated the gilded cage, so no Aneirin for her.
That's not to mention that she had a hand in that whole "saving the Circle" thing too. Or at least, she did, if you're in any position to hear her advising you to return there.
I think other respondents have already pish-poshed this.

The only one who thinks Wynne is essential to you saving the Circle is Wynne.