Eh, that depends on how important sex scenes are to an individual player. I didn't see any other part of the game suffer because 16 hours were spent mo-capping sex scenes. It's not likely those porn actors had any other jobs in the making of TW3, so the only possible waste here is money spent for their time.
On the other hand, BioWare put in extra time and effort so characters of all sizes could have some IB bondage... which could instead have been put into fixing, say, elven arms for example. Both is animation work, methinks. Though I suspect a lot of the fanbase agrees with the priorities that were chosen here.
There are parts of TW3 that could have been improved with the resources used for all that mocap recording, like for example refining the combat since I've seen that as a common complaint for TW3. The waste wouldn't be so much of time, which granted wasn't much, but mostly of money, since running motion capture technology is expensive. That's why Bioware for example said they can't feasibly use it for faces reading tens of thousands of lines since that would be the entire budget.
The thing with The Iron Bull being animated for all races and genders was done off the clock, actually. John Epler used his own time to make that happen. That's what I heard, anyway.
Yes. Romance.
W3 also had the romance, and sex came with it.
Ah, okay. Just making sure I understood what you were referring to.
That's one thing I like about DAI over TW3. In DAI the sex wasn't mandatory like it is in TW3.