well i wish someone did have the time, because with it being explained why it is such a bad idea maybe i could understand and learn something.
Alright, alright. I'll take the time. I should, anyway.
WHY A SEXUALITY TOGGLE WOULD BE A TERRIBAD IDEA-
Sexuality is way too variable to ever be accurately handled via a simple choice or toggle made at a menu.
For example, me. I'm a straight guy. I've always been straight. Never wavered. I love women and only women in both a romantic and sexual way. If I were to be "toggled" into the straight option, it'd be fine.
But not everyone is so rigid in their preferences. Others ebb and flow and change with time and other factors. Others aren't quite sure. Some are so complicated I can't sit here and pretend I can accurately describe how it works for them.
Sexuality isn't always a "one or the other" sort of thing. Its not always quite that simple. Romantic/sexual interest is so widely different from person to person(even between people of the same sexuality) that a toggle would only limit what kind of character a player could control.
Perhaps someone wants to play a character who's set in their preferences and only sticks to one or the other. A toggle could still affect them if they come across a character of a different sort that they'd like to attempt pursuing.
Point is, a toggle is a terrible idea. All it does is limit, does so unnecessarily, and would be a waste of resources. Bioware recognizes this and has always stated they won't do it.