Uh-huh. So you can choose a man or a woman, but if you choose a woman, the 'only' reason you did so is because you consider women to be objects. Great reasoning there.
It's hardly BS. Or rather, the fact that people tend to think women have gentler voices is hardly BS. Which is what matters.
What part of that was me reasoning that any and all female AIs and VIs are the result of women being objects? The body EDI inhabits only exists because it's what TIM likes. IIRC, he had a relationship or something or other with the woman "Dr. Eva Core" was based on. And the soothing woman's voice was just another part of his ploy to lull Shepard into thinking Cerberus is trustworthy and friendly.
I don't consider women to be anything other than women/humans. And why would I? I'm not into them in the slightest. Great jumping to conclusions, though.
Edit: To be more specific, to me, all women are women. All men are men. All of the above are humans, and should not be seen as anything less. No one is an object to me, and it'd be spiffing if you wouldn't make such wild and hasty accusations about me in the future.