You do realise that MShep had no gay options until ME3 don't you whilst lesbian FemShep was catered to from the first game?
Yeah, gay broshep players got the worst end of the deal, and if anybody deserves to have better representation, they do. Still, I think it's a little bizarre to claim that lesbian Shep was 'catered to'.
Straight Shep was guaranteed one romance in ME1 (Kaidan) and three romances in ME2 (Garrus, Thane, and Jacob); she could potentially miss out on any romance content in ME3 if she didn't have a preexisting relationship with Garrus and if Kaidan didn't survive, but both of those relationships still, y'know, existed. Meanwhile, lesbian Shep didn't have
anything in ME2 except for the Liara bits in LotSB (pay-for-gay!) and that only if she had a preexisting Liara relationship. One might well compare those to the parts of
Citadel that allowed the...whatever-it-was with Javik or Vega. As bad as ME3's romance situation could potentially be for a straight player, ME2's was worse for a gay one.
And there are vocal criticisms of both Liara and Traynor from within the community of gay players, like complaints of how Traynor placed herself in a sexual situation with broshep, or complaints of how Liara's romance was basically a copypasta version of the broshep-banging-blue-space-babe stuff rather than something special in its own right. Whether one agrees with these complaints or not, describing lesbian players as 'catered to' in this particular circumstance seems silly.
I think it's ridiculous for us to yell at each other over which of us has a better situation when frankly they're both pretty similar: straight players had a worse time of it in ME3, lesbian players had a worse time of it in ME2, and both of us had it better off than gay broshep players and significantly worse than straight broshep and his army of waifus.