You mentioned you were through posting in this thread in many different ways.
There was some mild mockery over just how many times you were inspired to proclaim it.
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Well no actually I do remember that was not quite accurate, I remember "this place is toast" and "I think I might write them to tell them this place is just a troll haven and they're better off without it," and even "I guess I'm done trying to make serious contributions," but never "I'm not ever pressing the post button in this thread ever again."
Even with closing down the forums part I was thinking it would just be the general forums and maybe a few of the feedback forums, the story, campaign, and characters ones seems all right.
However, the simple fact is that when it comes to the topic of Romance, or even sexuality generally, this place is 98.9% in the hands of the ME2/ME3/DA2 crowd, which has this very specific, very inaccurate view of what's best and yet they're in every single thread determined to essentially mind control everyone into their pre-programmed notions and are simultaneously utterly resistant to being improved in their perspectives.
It's even more problematic when you consider Bioware's version of sexuality was skewed and wonky from the beginning, at this rate, it will be positively unrecognizable and indistinguishable from the main. The extreme pandering in DA:I was positively Hollywood grade.
What annoys me the most is many supposed "fans" are just trendsters with a half-arsed view of all kinds of things and want to co-opt the stuff of people who have actually demonstrated or built interesting ideas in this regard for their own pet morality projects.
Forget game criticism too like levels and balancing, you mention anything other than a Bioware or AAA game and people look at you all skeptical and funny like it's some creepy unknown and can't possibly be of value. People should really embrace the joys of Plok and Jammit, as well as the notion that sexuality is not this deep impenetrable phantom with limitless boundaries and impossible understandings.
And yet despite all of that, having people who are just avid learners and fans of games would be all right, it seems to me gaming has just divided into two spheres, the one that craves the acknowledgement of this global society or something, and is willingness to sacrifice portions of the spirit of gaming to do it, and the side that believes the essence of gaming is a lion that need not concern itself with the opinions of the sheep.
The ultimate result isn't some great triumph, it just means people will keep looking and build new things, it's just energy drain in the end for everyone.