One of the most sensible posts I've seen on this new forum. 
Since you're being nice, know that I'll probably be "debating" and getting my share of laughs from it, especially since I know people won't learn their lessons for the reasons I stated in my first post on this page, but that I hold no hostility towards the SP community as a whole. I appreciate that ME and ME2 are two of my favourite games of all time thanks to the amazing single player campaigns.
I know every community has bad apples (we have them in our community surprise, surprise), so it's only natural that hostility develops. I'm no saint myself. I have a not so guilty pleasure of adding fuel to the fire of stupidity, which is why...
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Thank you. I try hard. I normally hang out in the DA forums, but if I had to read much more of TW fans and DA fans bickering constantly, I was gonna go nuts. I know that it's much the same here, if not worse to a degree. However, at least the debate is about the ME games themselves without continuously dragging another series into it.
I feel lucky I got into ME when I did. I knew about the endings, and yes, I was yelling profanties at my screen during the Starbrat segment. That aside, I can safely say I enjoyed all three games quite a bit. I'm glad that my friends on the DA forums encouraged me to give it a try. It was my first shooter, which is an odd thing to read coming from someone that's played video games for over 30 years. 
I have a theory that I think some of the reason why we get so passionate is because...all we have is our words. We have our words, our opinions. We use smilies and gifs to try to convey body language and facial expressions. Sometimes, we cling to those so tightly that I think we lose sight of what we have in common. I've been very guilty of this too in the past. Now I at least try to see a middle ground, and learn new opinions. I've got friends that I debate with a lot on the forums, but we get along.
Debating is one thing, but insults? Well, most of the people that I've gotten the privilege to speak with in private are overall awesome, smart people that are excited about the games. Even the ones that sometimes get really frustrated and lash out on the forums on occasion. That's why I know we can do better than that. 
@Arishok: I don't talk about "white privilege." Like, ever. I don't use the term "straight privilege" or privilege in general. I think it's too much of a hot-button word, and can be way too misconstrued. I do find it silly when folks start complaining about real world demographics needing to be applied to fantasy games in oddly specific areas, but I have never, ever talked about "white privilege" nor do I ever tell someone to check theirs. If others do that, it's one thing, but I personally find it rude.
I'm glad you enjoy my posts, and if I throw you off sometimes....well, I'm not apologizing for it. It's just who I am. 
I'll also be honest: I don't get along with most MP crowds actually. They are way too competitive for my taste more often than not. For games with good SP, I prefer to take things at my own pace.