If I refer to the Cousland family, children seemed to be raised by Nan while Eleanor was doing whatever she wanted, like being away at Denerim and attending meetings with Anora. Now, is Nevarra the same than Ferelden, honestly I don't know. But it's something to consider in the "Noble mothers are stuck at home all days" argument, wouldn't you say?
That's not what I was arguing, that is what I thought Cassandra said. My argument was actually my opinion on why I thought Cassandra and the Inquisitor would not marry: Cassandra is conservative in her religious and political outlook, thus she would most likely feel the same about marriage. Traditional values might dissuade her from marrying, because she might feel like she can't suit what she perceives as the role of wife. I'm looking at the character psychologically.
Two or three posters began to say that 'noble' somehow does not = traditional. There are two other problems coming from other posters, I think some people who have responded to me, personally, want Cassandra to marry, so they might be angry that someone thought of a reason why she might not, secondly, "politically correct" people, and or people who identify as being feminist, might feel that I condone 'conservative marriage', which I did not.