One last thought on the "OMG women fighting in a game/beating men in combat is so unrealistic!" crowd...
In Dragon Age, I can throw fireballs and lightning from my hands.
I can take four people equipped with daggers up against a thick-scaled beast larger than an elephant, which also flies and breathes fire, and those four people can kill that animal.
Yeah, I really don't think, for a fantasy game, that it's so far-fetched for women to be highly effective warriors.
And you know what else? I'm tired of people trying to take away women's power fantasies. Yes, I know most women aren't as strong as most men (at least in upper body strength). But this is a game, which I play for fun. I am not a particularly strong person in real life. I am also not able to change the entire world, in real life--I lack that level of influence. I doubt if most of the male players who play this game are all that strong (sure there are probably some), and I sincerely doubt many of you have massive influence over world politics. So instead of trying to take away someone else's enjoyment of a fantasy game where they can actually achieve great things, why don't we all just enjoy it? Because it's fantasy. And the moment you have people throwing fireballs and lightning bolts, you pretty much lose your claims to "realism."
In the interest of throwing names around. Read up on Lyudmila Pavlichenko; her story shows rather clearly the non-existent difference between men and women in war, but the very real difference in our modern culture's perception. Sgt. Tatyana Danylyshyn just took home 1st place in an International Shooting Competition. And Ronda Rousey is easily one of the most skilled fighters the UFC has ever seen.
Ask anyone who has served in any disciplined military division and they'll lecture you on the irrelevance of auxiliary body strength. You can either do the job, or you can't, and many women are doing the jobs.
There's nothing imaginary or fantastical about strong capable women serving their countries on the front lines. It's been happening throughout history, and it is still happening. Any argument against these facts is a personal problem, and has no connection to reality.
The habitual extinguishing of female power-fantasies is indeed an issue. It is in part because the majority of male power-fantasies revolve around saving a helpless woman. The unfortunate power of synonymy makes them seam incompatible. Bioware’s work alone undoes the irreverent stupidity within the space that it exists, but this synonymy is widespread and influential. Most of our culture is saturated with men saving women.